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Originally posted by ktsnake
And that's my point.
Someone said (don't want to go look to see who) that it's like trying on shoes. If you don't like one pair, go try another one.
Unfortunately, in many cases, with the sorority system, it's like having a salesman come up to you, shove some shoes in your face and say "Here they are... do you want shoes or not?".
But I agree, systems vary. People vary. Situations vary.
Oftentimes though, the system is very unfair to the individual.
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I think you are mis-interpreting the original point, here. She is not saying go through FR, and if it doesn't work out, go the following year. She is talking about really considering all your options the first time you go through.
Let's say your campus has five houses. After the first round, you LOVE AAA, kinda like BBB and CCC, and don't really feel EEE or FFF. You get your invites, and AAA has not invited you back. Well, maybe BBB or CCC is that second pair of shoes, and you should give them a shot to impress in the subsequent rounds.
