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Old 04-10-2010, 07:00 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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First off, ellebud, you seem to be a really good resource to your kids and their friends when it comes to recruitment.

I think the issue is with PNMs wanting to be in the chapter with the girls who are most like who they WANT to be. Not necessarily who they have the most in common with at that time.

You want to BE Miss Perfect Popular House, but you have more in common with Nice Regular Girl House. You don't realize that the girls who get invites and bids to Miss Perfect Popular are those that have the most in common with them. You are looking at what you WANT to be and missing out on potential opportunities with others.

Like it or not, not everyone is going to be a Miss Perfect House. That's just the way it is.

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