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Originally Posted by AoPiMommy
Well, my experience went south. In no uncertain terms I was told something very similar. At the time I wanted to trash all my AOPII swag, but after I calmed down I realized I could apply the "one bad apple" theory and move on. I suppose if it was handled sensitively it might be ok. I dunno, I could live without this practice.
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I think it would be a terrible call to make or receive, no matter who did it or how it was done. I can totally relate to your first gut reaction - would have probably been mine too!
Maybe this is why more groups are doing away with the practice? I have had lots of phone calls after the pnm was cut and reported back to legacy relation, and I have talked those alums through it. It is kind of nice to be able to say, "Who knows what those actives were thinking? This is rush and it is a crazy animal. Anything can happen." Not a great answer but better than saying something negative.