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Old 09-08-2017, 06:36 PM
FSUZeta FSUZeta is offline
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Originally Posted by LightnAiry View Post
This is probably a stupid question, but how do I not act like a mom?
Not a stupid question at all. I enjoy helping my friends when they are hosting parties. But I also take time out to enjoy the party.

You need to be on some committee. Ask your new member trainer how to do that. Another way to "not be a mom" is to delegate. When you do help out at get togethers, ask some pledge sisters to do specific tasks. People like to feel needed and involved.

As long as you are not helicoptering, it's not a bad thing to have your sisters/friends backs. But don't be obtrusive.
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