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Old 07-16-2015, 10:17 AM
HQWest HQWest is offline
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Every year we have women that come through that are legacies to another chapter so we might suspect they are leaning that way but you never KNOW.

I would just say that unless she is flat out rude about it (i.e. - "why the Heck would I ever want to be ABC when I am going to be XY like mom?") - to still give her the best pref you can.

So tell her about why you chose your chapter, tell her about what sisterhood means to you, tell her about what you think she could bring to the chapter or what qualities she has that would make her a great sister.

At the very least - if she does join the other chapter she will remember how friendly and sincere the ABC are and what a great sisterhood you must have. You might also be adding to the pref of the girl next to you....
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