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Old 03-05-2012, 02:16 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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I can buy the "she doesn't fit" thing if your chapter has like less than 50 people. Then I think chapters have a distinct personality at that point because of size.

But really, once you get past like 70, 80, 100, I just don't buy it.

I know, it's a radical thing to say that once a chapter gets past a certain size, pretty much any PNM could end up being happy there. But I think it's true. Which is why i'm a proponent of PNMs at these large chapter schools giving it a chance to work out (and same on the chapter's end with PNMs they think they don't want.) Chances are good that in a larger chapter, it will end up working out just fine.

It's really less magical than people think.

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