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Old 09-19-2008, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted by NutBrnHair View Post
2 words.... ACTIVE LISTENING

Don't go into a party with a list of canned questions. Just enter into a conversation naturally and LISTEN to what the other person is saying. Base your next question (or comment) on something she said.

Example:
"What did you do with your time off this summer?"

"Oh, not much -- just worked and went to see my grandparents."

Next question...ask about work or where her grandparents live, etc.

Active listening is the key.
Can I just say this is great advice even for guys pursuing NPHC fraternities.
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