My boyfriend is a jerkface who makes me cry.

awww mel...I'm sorry

although I'm feeling the cry part lately. :(

ughh...boys!

the boy who went to work in Europe called at 7:30 AM...he's backkkk! Lunching with him on Friday.

Ex- boy from a year ago called again a few times...don't know what to think of that.

EX- 4 year long boy called again last night...I am soo over him.

I am going to have to think all of this over at the gym tonight. Major working out needs to begin (at the gym and with the boys)

I got engaged to an Irish Catholic computer guy on my birthday.
My sister got engaged to an Irish Catholic computer guy on her birthday.

She is such a copycat! :p

What is with a good portion of the H&A girls men behaving badly!


HUUUUGGGGS to you!

Apparently they think because they are H&A men they can behave badly?!? :o

Mine made up for making me cry by bringing me a box of Reduced Fat Chips Ahoy. All is well.

-Apparently, I'm easy to console.

good. :)

Mine made up for it by taking me out for a yummy and expensive dinner Friday night and showering me w compliments.

Mine apologized...we're still working on the making up for it. :p

Mine wants a Bible with the Apocrypha shoved up his ass.:mad:

mine will also be manning the bbq at my daddy's surprise 60th birthday party this weekend, which involves 2 flights--1 on a tiny puddle jumper plane for 2.5 hours. lol

OMG I would cry. I HATE HATE HATE those tiny planes.

I hate them too, this is why God invented Ipods.

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Well, I did like you said and didnt call him/contact him at all and it worked. He called today and apologized for being a dick (even though I was the one who went crazy). Whew.

no, thats why God invented xanax

ETA: I am now on speaking terms with boy I'm not supposed to call. So now what am I supposed to term him?

He wasted no time informing me of how much fun he had this semester being a super senior. This was after I said how stressed I was. I might as well have said, Hi I'm a loser.

Really think I should not call him again...but will anyway.

I knew it was one of the boys I know, and possibly one of the ones I date, by the ringtone.
Caller ID screen on my phone said it was HIM.
I was in the bubble bath relaxing and yet I still took his call.
Crushing I am.

Why do boys suck at using the phone?

Why do boys suck, in general?

There's certain requirements to use the phone and they don't qualify?!

Is it wrong, PnC, that every time I see your posts about your sister's engagement I want to see a picture of the ring?

I'm still in supersingle mode, but I have a huge crush. We'll see if I can bust some moves this weekend. Wish me luck.

I luuuuv being in super single mode!!!! Good luck with the crush!

lol! I haven't even seen her ring in real life yet. She sent me a few pictures through email, and it's beautiful. It has three round stones with the center stone larger than the other two. And here it is:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6...Cream/ring.jpg

It's nice that we're both in love and happy. :)

I flew on one of those from LA to San Diego. The good: it was only for 30 minutes. The bad: we flew during a huge thunderstorm. The plane would occasionally drop a few feet and I would nearly pee myself.

I'm such a cheese ball...I love it when the bf calls me randomly to schedule time to go play outside when I get off work! :)

OHLORD, that's right-- and I take that flight tomorrow. When the ENTIRE state of Nevada is supposed to be in a storm. Lovely.

How much do you deserve to know when you're in a non-committed relationship?

I am paranoid. I want to know if you're still boning your ex-girlfriend. If you are, I can probably deal. BUT. I. JUST. WANT. TO. KNOW. But somewhat hesitant to ask because don't want to paint myself as Insecure Annoying Girl.

I need more information. Did you have an actual discussion about being non-committed? If so then you deserve to know nothing or you deserve to know anything that is in the "terms" of your non committed relationship. Like "we tell each other if we decide to date someone else" or "we tell each other if we decide to have sex with another person".

If you are in a situation where you haven't discussed it, I think it's fine to ask if he's sleeping with other people (assuming you two are sleeping together) because that's a health and well-being issue for you. AND you also get the info you want. ;)

ETA: if you're super paranoid about it then maybe the "non-committed" relationship doesn't really work for you? just a thought! :)

It's a new relationship and the "terms" haven't been sorted out yet. I think you are right and I'm just going to ask. It's not really the "Are you still sleeping with her?" that I am afraid of... it's all of the questions that will want to tumble out of my mouth when I hear the answer (whether it's yes or no).

And yes, the non-committed relationship is a struggle for me because my brain doesn't stop obsessing. But here's to hoping that I can keep myself in check...

I think that's a good choice. I would just prepare to hear the answer you don't want to hear before you ask it. They always say don't ask a question if you don't already know the answer. Good luck...it's tough situation but it's good to get things on the table. :)

Alright, so I broke down and called the Stupid Boy last Tuesday and got voicemail. He called me back 4 TIMES Wednesday and left 2 messages, one at home, one on the cell. I called him back Thursday, twice at home, once on cell, and left one message and still haven't heard back. GRRRRR!!!

so so so pissed right now.

Was all excited to go out with the boy tonight to be done with finals.

Instead, he walks in and we pretty much break up. Lovely.

I'm upset, because everything was good on paper, but in reality I did know something wasn't right.

At least he waited until finals were over

I'm sorry, those are the worst feelings. You try to fake yourself into thinking that everything is normal. At least he did wait for finals to be over.

Go have a glass of wine...one of the only times I like to drink wines are after breakups.

lol, I actually ended up going fishing, of all things.

I respect him a lot, and in reality, I felt a lot of the same things (my previous posts in this thread show that! yay for documentation of my feelings to prove to myself).

The older I get, the more and more I learn that my gut is usually right

Nothing quite says "I like you" like the 2:30am phone call....

Took a pi kapp alum to the adpi formal I had to chaperone last night...he was wonderful...finger crossed this one is a keeper. Its been awhile since I've gotten this giddy this early on.

mu_agd you'll appreciate this...he knows some guys who work at Angels stadium and hes going to see if he can get us field passes when the Sox are in town to play the Angels in August. After he tells me this I must have looked like I was on cloud 9 because he goes "You'd love me forever if I was able to pull this off wouldnt you." My reply "yes yes I would" lol. :D

That's awesome! I want to come! I have my dad's company's tickets for a game next month against the Angels. My friends old roomate works at Fenway and she's going to try to get us on the field for BP. Fingers crossed for both of us!

Sometimes I really don't want to get married. And then sometimes I do. :confused:

Maybe I will escape to New Mexico.

Okay, this is stopping now.

Nic, can I start calling you whenever I have the urge to bootycall him?

Of course. I will tell you lots of funny stories to distract you.