I was fuckn with you.

Okay, I'll bite. I hate you for this shit LOL.

You hatefully love me. :D Stop trying to use machismo to downplay love. You're in looooooove.

LOL this is scandalous as hell.

LOL. For the sake of clarity, you cyberhatefully cyberlove me but are IN LOVE with your womanfriend. Own up to that love that spans beyond sexual encounters. Stop faking the funk! Figurative funk and not literal funk. :)

LOL okay Doc, I feel you. This is good shit, though. I was just fuckn with PrettyBoy when dude was quoting shit I've said (and sometimes still say LOL) in the past.

My D&R random for today. I'm sitting here waiting for my girl to get ready. She talked me into going to Bible study with her tonight at 7. I gotta go up in here and listen to this boring ass pastor LOL.

^^^I'm not trying to pry or anything, but are you going to Bible study for you or Brandi?

I went because she talked me into going. I feel you, though, I should be going for me. The Bible study was cool, though. I'll be going more often (for me).

This seems to be the theme for a lot of people in the past few months.


Is this the end? are you my friend?
It seems to me, you ought to be free.
You used to be mine when the chips were down.
You used to be mine when I weren't around.
Girl, can't you see how I feel? all these feelings that I feel are real.
Oh, girl, can't you see I need you?

Is this the end? are you my friend?
It seems to me you ought to be free.
You used to be mine when the chips were down.
You used to be mine when I weren't around.
Girl, can't you see how I feel? all these feelings that I feel are real.
Oh, girl, can't you see I need you?


Aw, baby, is this the end?
Aw, baby, is this the end?


Mama told me one day it was gonna happen
But she never told me when.
She told me it would happen when I was much older.
Wish it would've happened then.
Mama told me one day it was gonna happen
But she never told me when.
She told me it would happen when I was much older.
Wish it would've happened then.


Is this the end?
I wanna know, I wanna know, I wanna know.
Is this the end?
I gotta know, I gotta know, I gotta know.
Is this the end?

This has been the theme for me and my girl the past few months LOL!

My theme lately

Heading to ICG's for dinner, he's cooking. Haven't seen him in a week because I've had my kids and they haven't both gone out at the same time all week! Very rare event... Can't wait to see how big the puppies have grown in the past week!

There's a certain irony in my ex telling me that I'm self-destructive while he's intoxicated.

Today, ICG and I are baking. We're making homemade breads... a loaf of braided bread, an almond cherry danish braid and chocolate banana muffins. This should be fun :)

And we ended up having calzones last night so we're having the steak we were going to have last night. Yum.

^^^Ooooh how fun! It sounds like you guys are off to a rock solid friendship before anything else. I'm lovin' it. :cool:

I haven't laughed this hard at Facebook commentary in a long time. The question posted on TLAM's page was "Should women have a 90-day rule?" There are almost 1600 comments and they are getting funnier and funnier and funnier....

Wait, I had to Google that...I didn't know that was a real thing. Who came up with that? Why assign an arbitrary number to something so personal and emotional?

I should have known.

I can't believe we did that shit in the movie theater. There wasn't anybody in there but us, but damn! LOL.

Texting me out of the blue and not DIALING THE PHONE TO CALL ME will not get you booty for the weekend. Especially when your last previous text to me was a criticism of my appearance. You have pretty much given me the impression that you're only doing this because you're bored in class.

When I say call me back, I mean DIAL THE PHONE AND CALL ME. Not a text.

The boy who CALLED ME AND TALKED TO ME this week for an hour+ has so many good points with me now, even though he has more baggage than Samsonite and American Tourister combined.

The moral of this story is: If you are courting a 40+ year old woman, unless she has said texting is her preferred mode of communication due to job or kids or whatever....DON'T TEXT. CALL AND SPEAK.

As soon as my girl gets out the shower, daddy has a big surprise waiting for her LOL.

Antibacterial.

Oral

Antiseptic.

Popcorn butter on my dick.

In that case...antimicrobial.

LOL.

Iota Man, what does your use of "daddy" with your womanfriend mean to you? I am curious because I have always found it disgusting to you use "mommy" and "daddy" (and any derivative) as sexual pet names.

We are having fun :) And we are having some good conversations. And, somehow, we spend 10 hours together and it feels like it's just a couple hours.

^^^^Yeeeeaaaa! :cool:

There's a logic behind it that you can look up if you so choose. A few people in the comments section said what you did but they really ran the gamut. There were the handful of women who said "No, I can't wait that long." The majority said "Yes/Yes and longer than 90 days/Yes and until marriage!" Then there were the slew of men who were all "OOOOOOMGABC123WTFBBQ HEEEEEELL NO SHE SHOULDN'T DO THAT, WHYYYYYYYY???" Hahahahahaha You had the regular snarky characters who insisted they would cheat/leave/etc. if the woman they dated withheld. But most of them had no snark, they responded like someone stole their lollipop.

Oh, I understand the logic--but 90 days seems very arbitrary to me because the decision to share your body with someone is so very personal and can be based on a million factors. For example, if I started dating someone with whom I'd been good friends for a while, it's unlikely that we'd wait 90 days to start banging like a screen door in a hurricane.

Let's not act brand new here--someone can still dine-and-dash after 90 days the same way they could after the first night. It's not a guarantee that if you wait 90 days, it's off to the altar (please see my recent post re: one of my good friends). If you need time when dating to make sure that sex is the right decision, that's cool. But calling it a "90 day rule" is a little weird.

Munchkin03, this is deja vu. Did we not discuss this months ago? I believe we did. Maybe you were just slamming Steve Harvey and not discussing the actual 90 Day Rule. LOL.

I think "rules" are dumb. Grown people do what works for them. We do not have to conform to other's rules (laws and moral standards aside). We also do not have to explain and justify our choices to anyone other than our significant others. If people want to bang after Day 1, have at it but don't act shocked if things don't work out. If people want to bang after Day 90, have at it but don't act shocked if things don't work out. LOL. Nothing is 100% certain.

Well, I am often known for slamming Steve Harvey. :p

About a year ago, I discussed my personal "rule of 3," which means that after a breakup or a dry spell, you don't glom on to the first warm body who asks you out. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone unless he/she needed to explore dating without attaching sex to it. It could be the Rule of 8 or the Rule of 20--3 was the number that worked best for me.

LOL. GCers, what do you all consider to be the most condescending and patronizing things to say to ex-lovers (or whatever people call it)?

"I am so proud of you/so proud of what you have become" is definitely on that list. LOL.

That is such a parent thing to say. We are proud of the people we care about but saying that to someone you once dated can come across a certain way. Take your pride and shove it up your ass. LOL.

I just threw back my head and laughed like Ursula. :p I agree that it's arbitrary but like you said, you had a reason for your Rule of 3. SH had a reason for saying 90 instead of some other amount of days. But I think it's pretty clear that "90" can be substituted for the number of one's choosing. My rule is just a scootch longer than 90 days ;) and that is not changing after reading a book. Some of the more serious FB comments addressed that and said they prefer to wait 30, 120, or 365.

And IIRC, Joan on Girlfriends had a 90-day rule and a bunch of women started doing that back then (even though that number meant something to a fictional character and not necessarily to them) so this is a recycled idea that goes back even past the GF era, I'm sure.

My girl uses mamma and I use daddy, and I call my dick, Big Johnny or Big black Caddy. She likes when I say "Come to daddy, because Big Johnny wants to come out to play". Then she'll turn around and say some shit like, "Come over here and park that Big black Caddy in mamma's garage" LOL. My girl is a freak. For real. That shit turns us on. You find it to be "disgusting", but we like the shit. Different strokes for different folks.

LOL.

My real question is what is it about "mommy" and "daddy" that you find kinky and sexy.

I don't know. It must be some psychological, subliminal shit. You're probably sittin in front of your computer saying, "This mofo and his girl got issues". LOL!

Someone said to me the other day "We all have baggage, the trick is finding someone who's baggage fits ours". So, as long as your issues work together... so be it...lol.

Heading to ICG's for dinner.

CTFU! I feel you.

Have fun with dude. Did dude hit it, yet? LOL!