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christiangirl 05-19-2012 02:02 AM
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Originally Posted by AGDee (Post 2147042)
You think that part is built differently on us than on men? It isn't.
Right. It's an exit, not an entrance. Biologically, that orifice is not built for anything to enter and that goes for both people.

On a mildly related note, this is the reason why I couldn't understand why people found butts attractive. It's what you sit on and where poop comes out. There's nothing remotely sexy about that so I was at a loss.


Was. :o

Iota Man 05-19-2012 07:01 AM
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Originally Posted by AGDee (Post 2147042)
That body part has the same purpose on people of both genders. There is no difference. If you feel that way, then why can't you respect that she would feel that way? You think that part is built differently on us than on men? It isn't.
It is different on y'all than it is on us. To shit, it's the same, but when it comes to sex it's different. For example, if I put my dick in her rectum, I'm going to feel it, and my dick is going to get hard from that, possibly busting after a few pumps. If a female sticks a dildo up my ass, tell me how y'all are going to be able to feel that? Y'all can pump all day long, and still not feel a thing. We might do a few strokes, and bust a nut, depending on how long its been since we had sex. That's the difference. You feel me?

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Originally Posted by christiangirl (Post 2147046)
On a mildly related note, this is the reason why I couldn't understand why people found butts attractive. It's what you sit on and where poop comes out. There's nothing remotely sexy about that so I was at a loss.


Was. :o
It's the size of that ass that dudes like. Dudes don't think of "shit" coming out of that ass when we look at it. christiangirl, you know why we like it. Don't act like you don't know you got a big ass (if you do have one, like you claim to have) wearing some of the clothes you wear to show that big ass off. Y'all try to play innocent n shit, when in reality y'all know you like us to look at that ass. Black females especially. That's y'alls specialty, that ass. That's why I don't really like white girls because they have flat asses. Y'all don't. You feel me?

SydneyK 05-19-2012 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2146940)
I don't see anything wrong with anal.
Except that you do.
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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147032)
Hell to the naw on that shit. I'm not letting nobody put anything up my ass unless it's some medical shit from the doctor.
See?

It's not all about you. Brandy wasn't put on this earth just to please you. Back off and give her a little respect. She knows you're interested in those things now, and if she ever decides she's up for trying it, she'll let you know. That ball's in her court now - don't bring it up anymore. And don't hold a grudge against her for something you wouldn't be willing to do, either.

amIblue? 05-19-2012 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147058)
It is different on y'all than it is on us. To shit, it's the same, but when it comes to sex it's different. For example, if I put my dick in her rectum, I'm going to feel it, and my dick is going to get hard from that, possibly busting after a few pumps. If a female sticks a dildo up my ass, tell me how y'all are going to be able to feel that? Y'all can pump all day long, and still not feel a thing. We might do a few strokes, and bust a nut, depending on how long its been since we had sex. That's the difference. You feel me?
The only difference in what you're talking about is how it feels for you. Pretty sure the recipient is going to have a similar experience, regardless of his/her gender.

AlphaFrog 05-19-2012 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted by amIblue? (Post 2147073)
The only difference in what you're talking about is how it feels for you. Pretty sure the recipient is going to have a similar experience, regardless of his/her gender.
Actually, a man has pleasure sensors there (I believe it has to do with the prostate) that a woman doesn't have. That's one reason why anal doesn't make sense for anyone other than two men. A woman would probably get the same pleasure from pegging and receiving, because in both cases, it's more about mental stimulation than physical stimulation.

amIblue? 05-19-2012 12:18 PM
Well, I learned something today.

christiangirl 05-19-2012 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147058)
It's the size of that ass that dudes like. Dudes don't think of "shit" coming out of that ass when we look at it. 1. christiangirl, you know why we like it. 2. Don't act like you don't know you got a big ass (if you do have one, like you claim to have) wearing some of the clothes you wear to show that big ass off. 3. Y'all try to play innocent n shit, when in reality 4. y'all know you like us to look at that ass. Black females especially. 5. That's y'alls specialty, that ass. 6. That's why I don't really like white girls because they have flat asses. Y'all don't. You feel me?
That's a lot of assumptions and generalizations all in one paragraph. I just wanna point that out.

I remember when that Pegging thread was first started. I walked in there (with no clue what it was) and felt my retinas start to burn out of my face.

Munchkin03 05-19-2012 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 2147086)
Actually, a man has pleasure sensors there (I believe it has to do with the prostate) that a woman doesn't have. That's one reason why anal doesn't make sense for anyone other than two men. A woman would probably get the same pleasure from pegging and receiving, because in both cases, it's more about mental stimulation than physical stimulation.
Yes. The prostate likes to be stroked and massaged.

dreamseeker 05-20-2012 01:51 AM
I feel a little bit better, now.

christiangirl 05-20-2012 05:22 AM
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Originally Posted by dreamseeker (Post 2147162)
I feel a little bit better, now.
Whatchu do?

dreamseeker 05-20-2012 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl (Post 2147166)
Whatchu do?
gain understanding.

PrettyBoy 05-20-2012 09:03 PM
I googled the 5 LL and decided to take the quiz. Although I don't get into those kinds of books/authors, I thought it would be fun to see if the numbers matched me.

Words of affirmation -8
I can agree on that.

Quality Time -6
That's about right for me. I do like "me" time, sometimes.

Receiving gifts -4
That's about right.

Acts of Service -4
That one was off.

Physical Touch -8
That's about right, but I thought I would score a little higher than 8. I love hugs and kisses. Especially, if that leg is crossed and some skin on that thigh is showing, I gotta go ahead and "cop a feel". :D

Iota Man 05-21-2012 06:21 AM
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Originally Posted by SydneyK (Post 2147070)
Except that you do.

See?

It's not all about you. Brandy wasn't put on this earth just to please you. Back off and give her a little respect. She knows you're interested in those things now, and if she ever decides she's up for trying it, she'll let you know. That ball's in her court now - don't bring it up anymore. And don't hold a grudge against her for something you wouldn't be willing to do, either.
I do, but only for me, though LOL. For real, I feel you though, I'll wait to see if she brings it back up. Big girl made a valid point too. Females do get all emotional when it comes to sex. Two different genders = two different thoughts and feeling about sex.

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Originally Posted by amIblue? (Post 2147073)
The only difference in what you're talking about is how it feels for you. Pretty sure the recipient is going to have a similar experience, regardless of his/her gender.
I think it's more of a physical thing for dudes though. We can hit it and enjoy it, while at the same time not really thinking about anything.

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 2147236)
if that leg is crossed and some skin on that thigh is showing, I gotta go ahead and "cop a feel". :D
CTFU! I feel you. That's why I don't know why you won't "go ahead" and tap that ass after you've "gone ahead" and "copped the feel" LOL. I don't know how you do it. I'd be like "girl now that you've stimulated my dick, let me stimulate that ass" LOL! For real.

DrPhil 05-21-2012 06:57 AM
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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147267)
Females do get all emotional when it comes to sex. Two different genders = two different thoughts and feeling about sex.
Reminder:

Female = biological sex
Women = gender

I still do not believe that thoughts and feelings about sex differ based on biological sex as much as people pretend that they do. If there is a difference based on gender, it is mostly because people keep saying that it exists and therefore continuing to teach that it should exist. Women who give less of an emotional damn about sex are frowned upon just like women who aren't nurturing and do not want children. Men who are emotional about sex have their masculinity questioned just like men who are nurturers.


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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147267)
I think it's more of a physical thing for dudes though. We can hit it and enjoy it, while at the same time not really thinking about anything.
If you are not thinking about anything and have no emotions, where do the feelings and physical pleasure come from? Brain, emotions, and physical are all tied together.

I really wish men were as emotionless, thoughtless, and Penis Powerful** as people pretend that they are. If men were as such they would not have to protest so much to prove that they are. Both women and men think about and have emotions about a myriad of things regardless of whether they outwardly express these thoughts and emotions. Hell hath no fury like a man scorned.

**The average man thinks his penis is larger, more powerful, and more pleasurable than it is. Tell these men that they are not as awesome as they think they are and watch a grown man cry. If that is not a hormonal, gendered, emotional, and brain driven bond to sexuality, I do not know what is.

XAntoftheSkyX 05-21-2012 09:12 AM
Well, I was able to to bring a laptop on tour so I thought I'd get this done. Starfish and I broke up. We figured out that as strong as we are when were together, we still have a lot of time apart and even when we do get back together in December we probably wouldn't have a lot of time together. So it goes.

christiangirl 05-21-2012 12:20 PM
Awww I'm sorry to read that. :( *hugs laptop*

DrPhil 05-21-2012 04:49 PM
When someone says they do not want any children or do not want any more children, do not say things like "awwwww, you should have at least one (or one more)" and "I think you would be a good mother (or father)!"

That is as dumb, inappropriate, and disrespectful as saying to someone who does want children or wants another child "awww, you should not have any" and "I think you would be a horrible mother (or father)!"

We are talking about a human life here and not buying a puppy or painting the living room. Children are big responsibilities and even when they are not cute and are stressful, they are still your kids. It is not as though the stork will let you borrow a baby in the event that you want one and then pick the baby up should you decide against it.

psusue 05-21-2012 06:27 PM
I don't particularly want kids (this could change, I'm still very young) but I don't mind when people say "you'd be such a good mom though!" I think they mean it as a compliment. And I usually respond with "yes, but I can also use those skills in other ways" and leave it at that.

But I understand, it's frustrating when people don't a. respect your feelings on a matter and b. don't seem to comprehend the massive responsibility that is parenthood.

DrPhil 05-21-2012 06:54 PM
:) I see that as surface-level compliments. They do not know either way and they are typically saying that based on the assumption that girls and women are nurturers whose ultimate goal is to take care of children.

It reminds me of many years ago when someone I knew saw me and said "hello, how are you doing?!" That person was not paying attention to my response because when I coughed and said "I feel horrible, I have a bad cold" the person smiled and said "good" and kept walking. Or maybe that person was listening and wished ill towards me which brings me back to my original point.:p

PrettyBoy 05-21-2012 10:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147267)
CTFU! I feel you. That's why I don't know why you won't "go ahead" and tap that ass after you've "gone ahead" and "copped the feel" LOL. I don't know how you do it. I'd be like "girl now that you've stimulated my dick, let me stimulate that ass" LOL! For real.
To me, dude, sex is a very small part of any relationship. Plus, I don't believe in dating without a purpose. Your purpose and my purpose are so different that I wouldn't expect you to understand my decisions. Dating for me is seeing if the two of us are compatible, -someone who can become my best friend during courtship. I would get bored if sex was the only thing happening or if it was the foundation of what we have, and I can be bored by myself. I don't need a boring relationship. You're right in a sense when you talk about "stimulation". I actually believe that one of the most overlooked areas in relationships (between a woman and a man) is "stimulation" –but I'm talking about the kind of "stimulation" that emerges from the other person's ability to engage my mind, excite my emotions, and ignite my imagination on a wide range of life topics. Not just the kind of "stimulation" you're talking about.

cheerfulgreek 05-22-2012 01:03 AM
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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 2147452)
I'm talking about the kind of "stimulation" that emerges from the other person's ability to engage my mind, excite my emotions, and ignite my imagination on a wide range of life topics. Not just the kind of "stimulation" you're talking about.
Yep. Stimulating people stimulate each other. ;)

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cheerfulgreek 05-22-2012 01:08 AM
When I took the "5 Love Languages" thingie, I thought my score was kind of accurate, I guess.

For words of affirmation I got a 7.
Quality time, I got an 11
Gifts -0
Acts of service -8
Physical touch -4

Fun stuff. :)

KSig RC 05-22-2012 11:10 AM
In a lot of ways, Languages of Love tests are a sort of inverse horoscope - you're bound to get what you want out of it, except here, you can explicitly game the system using the questions.

So it's not surprising most of us feel the test results are vaguely accurate. That's by design.

AlphaFrog 05-22-2012 11:38 AM
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Originally Posted by KSig RC (Post 2147526)
In a lot of ways, Languages of Love tests are a sort of inverse horoscope - you're bound to get what you want out of it, except here, you can explicitly game the system using the questions.

So it's not surprising most of us feel the test results are vaguely accurate. That's by design.
Well, the design of the test is to measure your preferences. So, no, it's no surprise that you prefer your preferences. Getting what you want is essentially the whole point. It's just that it puts your wants into words, which we sometimes have trouble doing.

KSig RC 05-22-2012 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 2147530)
Well, the design of the test is to measure your preferences. So, no, it's no surprise that you prefer your preferences. Getting what you want is essentially the whole point. It's just that it puts your wants into words, which we sometimes have trouble doing.
Right - this is what I was trying to get at ... it can certainly be a useful tool.

And also that there's no real use in debating/discussing the "accuracy" of the testing, since you give yourself the values/scores. Application > 'accuracy' in this regard.

christiangirl 05-22-2012 12:24 PM
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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 2147530)
So, no, it's no surprise that you prefer your preferences.
iGiggled :o

DrPhil 05-22-2012 12:24 PM
And some people get mad when I tell them just that because I have ruined their eureka moment in which the Love Languages was supposed to tell them something brand new about themselves. LOL.

People love quick fixes and delivered knowledge.

AlphaFrog 05-22-2012 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2147541)
And some people get mad when I tell them just that because I have ruined their eureka moment in which the Love Languages was supposed to tell them something brand new about themselves. LOL.

People love quick fixes and delivered knowledge.
I think it's less about "learning something brand new" and more about learning to verbalize why you need certain things from a relationship. It was the same sort of thing with that Love & Respect book I was reading. It's such an easy concept that in traditional gender roles, men want respect more than anything and women want love more than anything, and men who feel disrespected tend to act in unloving ways, which push women to act in more disrespectful ways. Yet saying it in those terms can change your frame of mind during arguments and conflict.

christiangirl 05-22-2012 12:50 PM
^^^I got that book years ago and still haven't read it. Aside from not really wanting to read it (I heard a lot about it and got curious)....IDK it seemed like such a basic concept, I wasn't sure how there could be an entire book about it. You just summed it up in like 2 sentences.

I decided to take the 5LL quiz again to see if it's changed since I took it a few years ago. It hasn't. Well, maybe a little since Touch and Quality Time are tied but they were so close before (like 10 and 9) that I don't see a huge difference.

Words of Affirmation-6
Quality Time-10
Receiving Gifts-3
Acts of Service-1
Physical Touch-10

Iota Man 05-22-2012 02:18 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2147269)
Reminder:

Female = biological sex
Women = gender

I still do not believe that thoughts and feelings about sex differ based on biological sex as much as people pretend that they do. If there is a difference based on gender, it is mostly because people keep saying that it exists and therefore continuing to teach that it should exist. Women who give less of an emotional damn about sex are frowned upon just like women who aren't nurturing and do not want children. Men who are emotional about sex have their masculinity questioned just like men who are nurturers.




If you are not thinking about anything and have no emotions, where do the feelings and physical pleasure come from? Brain, emotions, and physical are all tied together.

I really wish men were as emotionless, thoughtless, and Penis Powerful** as people pretend that they are. If men were as such they would not have to protest so much to prove that they are. Both women and men think about and have emotions about a myriad of things regardless of whether they outwardly express these thoughts and emotions. Hell hath no fury like a man scorned.

**The average man thinks his penis is larger, more powerful, and more pleasurable than it is. Tell these men that they are not as awesome as they think they are and watch a grown man cry. If that is not a hormonal, gendered, emotional, and brain driven bond to sexuality, I do not know what is.
I don't get all into the technical scientific side of it. This is how it is for me. As long as she has a big ass, and likes to fuck, I'm good.

DrPhil 05-22-2012 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147582)
I don't get all into the technical scientific side of it. This is how it is for me. As long as she has a big ass, and likes to fuck, I'm good.
I am sure you aren't as much of a childish loser as you portray yourself. You are an example of the (wannabe) Penis Powerful that I was talking about.

Iota Man 05-22-2012 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2147584)
I am sure you aren't as much of a childish loser as you portray yourself. You are an example of the (wannabe) Penis Powerful that I was talking about.
My dick is packin. It's a beautiful thing.

DrPhil 05-22-2012 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147587)
My dick is packin. It's a beautiful thing.
Then suck it.

Then fuck yourself.

Iota Man 05-22-2012 02:27 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by KSig RC (Post 2147526)
In a lot of ways, Languages of Love tests are a sort of inverse horoscope - you're bound to get what you want out of it, except here, you can explicitly game the system using the questions.

So it's not surprising most of us feel the test results are vaguely accurate. That's by design.
I feel you. What cracks me up is a lot of the authors of these self-help love books make a shit load of money off of mofos who are in foul relationships. They read these books, and still end up divorced, or split up. It's bullshit, to me.

Iota Man 05-22-2012 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2147589)
Then suck it.

Then fuck yourself.
I got my girl for that.

christiangirl 05-22-2012 02:30 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147582)
I don't get all into the technical scientific side of it. This is how it is for me. As long as she has a big ass, and likes to fuck, I'm good.
Quote:
Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2147584)
I am sure you aren't as much of a childish loser as you portray yourself. You are an example of the (wannabe) Penis Powerful that I was talking about.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147587)
My dick is packin. It's a beautiful thing.
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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2147589)
Then suck it.

Then fuck yourself.
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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147591)
I got my girl for that.
I canNOT with you people.

DrPhil 05-22-2012 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147591)
I got my girl for that.
Then save it for a rainy day.

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Originally Posted by christiangirl (Post 2147592)
I canNOT with you people.
LOL.

Iota Man 05-22-2012 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2147593)
Then save it for a rainy day.
It doesn't matter if it's raining, snowing, sunshine, in fact I wouldn't give a shit if it was a goddamn tsunami, or a tornado tearin up shit... I hit that ass in all kinds of weather. Point blank. Big ass = hard dick = me hittin it.

DrPhil 05-22-2012 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Iota Man (Post 2147594)
It doesn't matter if it's raining, snowing, sunshine, in fact I wouldn't give a shit if it was a goddamn tsunami, or a tornado tearin up shit... I hit that ass in all kinds of weather. Point blank. Big ass = hard dick = me hittin it.
There are so many places I can take this joke but they are in violation of GC TOS.

Iota Man 05-22-2012 02:37 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2147595)
There are so many places I can take this joke but they are in violation of GC TOS.
Who said I was joking? I like ass. What's wrong with that?


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