damn, i have to find an "and guest" for a wedding.

I hate having to do that. I read somewhere that if you are single, you should take your most attractive male friend. I tried it once, and it was definitely the best choice! :)

On another note:

Stupid guy. I know we keep trying to make plans to go out and they always seem to fall through because of one of us. I kinda like you, and you are annoying me because every time I stop thinking about you is when you call again. Damnit just pick a date and time for us to go out.

Potential absolution of all guilt!

I hate to feel good about this kind of ending but god, that would be marvelous.

Wow, apparently me posting a note about you on GC sent you a subconscious message making you call me. :p

He finally said he's tired of our plans falling through. Wednesday for sure. Of course, I'm a little bit sick now. Hopefully it will be better by then. :)

My ex that i was with for all of college is finally in a relationship again, which i'm glad, he seems to have his life together

i on the other hand, have no job, haven't been on a date in over a year and am still mad about the whole non-bf crap (which i should be over by now if i was normal)

i feel like i've had a black cloud lurking since about august 04, so if it could dissipate, that would be great

As if this situation possibly needed to grow MORE awkward and contrived.

I (*&@#$*&*!@ HATE GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!

I love the sound of you walking away

I'm about to kick one of my guy friends' arses. He wants to have a girlfriend/get married/live a fairy tale life so badly that he's made a deal with this bartender he met a few weeks ago that if they're both still not married by this time next year, they'll marry each other. The catch? She's got a boyfriend already. Oy. :rolleyes: This totally sounds like something a high school girl would do. Why do guys seem to be missing the part of their brains that makes them think logically?

Well, you didn't see it coming 'cause you never understood
That there's a time to draw the line when things are going good
But you just kept on giving beyond the call of love
And he was kind to rob you blind of the pieces of your heart
Like that part that made you give
And the part that made you weak
When he would softly kiss you
And tell you that he missed you
I know it doesn't seem like what I'm going to say is true
But it's not the end of the world

It's not the end of the line
You know there's more to love
You know there's more to life
And I know there's more to you


I hate this situation because I know EXACTLY what it's like, and I can't do anything to help her.

no matter how nice and straightforward you think someone is and how they'll never play games or be passive aggressive...

SOONER OR LATER, THEY WILL. IN THE IMMORTAL WORDS OF MICHAEL JACKSON IT'S HUMAN NATURE.

Oh, thanks. Now I have to put on "Black or White."

This is all I have to say

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So I know this boy (I call him BAG) and our schedules never meet up. He got into town this weekend (he is away at school for the AF), called me right away, and guess where I am FLORIDA (for the stinkin AF) When I get home he will be out of town again. Why can't we just meet up!!!!!!!!!!! AND HE IS A CUTE FLY BOY

OOOOH im'ing with him now. He's so cute!!! Him and the gf are on a break cuz they fight too much, and he says he's single and having fun right now. He'll be at the bar tonite that we all go to. WAY EXCITED.

Ok sooo. Last nite all went out to our normal hang out bar. He was there. Said hi. I was giddy. Then we all went to one of the clubs down the street. I, having mono and extremely tired and HATING clubs... went anyways. He was there, stood by me for a while and we talked. Since when am I attracted to blonde hair blue eyes? It's always about the dark hair dark eyes. I felt like a giddy 10 year old.

WHY did you have to get drunk and call me on Friday night? I told you I can't be your friend anymore. I told you to just mail me the earrings I left at your house. I told you that I miss you and am trying to distance myself. Apparently you took that to mean that I wanted you to call me. So wrong.

How can someone in one sentance say that they will probably be moving to Dallas and be "out of my hair" very soon, then in the next sentance say, "If you want to come over I would like that"? NO, I'm not going to come over! Just stop calling me and leave me alone!

Then today, he felt the need to e-mail me and apologize and say a bunch of isht that I didn't need to hear. Sweetie, you don't need to tell me that you will leave me alone.... JUST DO IT!!!!! :mad:

Yes, I still miss him, but as I told him... We all make choices. He has made his and I have made mine.

OK this is a question for guys only.

Say your girlfriend had a few personal items at your place - things like saline, moisturizer, a little bag of makeup etc. - so when she stayed over she'd have something there to use. You guys break up. Now it's months later and you STILL have this stuff at your apartment. Does this have a deeper meaning, or are you just a big lazy ass who doesn't clean?

I know I know... I'm not a guy so I shouldn't answer. But I will say what I would think..... I would think that he is just lazy. I think if he kept a box full of pictures of you or little notes that you wrote or something, then it might mean more.

Not necessarily. One guy I dated had some recent exes stuff, but nothing sentimental like notes or pictures. When I called him on it, he said it was because he still hadn't gotten over her. Needless to say, we broke up soon after.

That's interesting. Not what I would have expected.

And yeah, I wouldn't blame you for ending it after finding that out. No one wants to be a rebound.

We are too lazy to clean . . its just not important you know? We barely pick our own things up.

Pure laziness. Nothing more.

I've been divorced for more than 5 years now and my ex still has some of my old stuff at his house. I moved out and only took what I wanted and he's too lazy to go through and pitch it. Either way, dump him. Who wants someone who is too lazy to clean?

psst, we're already done. you're outa the loop dear :)

Thanks to the guys, that's what I thought but wanted to make sure. This is a man who still has Band Aids that open by pulling the string.

Question on girls?

Sorry this might be long but bear with me......

So I met his guy through a friend (they work together) in Aug. We emailed back and forth b/c we were both busy at work. Talked on the phone a couple of times but that's it. Oct he calls and we hang out. The next week he leaves for a school for work and will be gone for about 4 months. He calls a couple times but that is it. He gets back in to town for a school break calls, text messages me a few times and we hang out again. And now he is gone again to finish school. He has always been the one to make contact. I kinda like him and want to keep him interested.


So here is the question what should the next move be?

They have newer ones?

LOL, yes.

I forget that not everyone goes through as many Band-Aids as I do.

I think the last person I knew with the string Band-Aids was my grandpa.

Just when I've about given up, Matt reaches out out to me and says he wants to work things out.

And then he got on a flight to Kona.

Damn the bastard.

Ok, college boy. So, you've decided to change the way you do things, huh? You would like for us to go out on a few dates and see if there could be something real here?

Alright then..... I'll go out on a few dates with you. But, the second you even hint at acting the way you did a year ago, or treat me with even the slightest amount of disrespect.... You are done, and will not be hearing from me ever again.

Oh, and I'm not just going to jump back into bed with you. You will have to prove some things to me first.

:)

So I am divorced today. Its been a year and a hlaf but today was still really hard.

But oh well I am moving on and that's that!

I dropped Mr. ADPiUCF off at the airport this morning... and now we won't get to see each other for 3 weeks while he is on travel for work. :(

And I still don't know what to get him for Christmas!

Thank you for texting me twice as well as calling me twice at 2am in the morning. And saying "I love you" on the voicemail message... WOW. However, I'm not getting my ass outta my warm cozy bed to come see you. Some people have to be at work at 7:45 in the morning. Call at a reasonable hour next time and I'll see what I can do, but that still doesn't mean you're getting in my pants... even if you tell me you love me..

Sheez, what does a poor guy have to do?

I don't know what to think about this new guy.... He's nice enough, cute enough, fun enough..... But I just can't get excited about him.

I've been trying to figure out what it is about him, and I think I've come up with it.... He just takes himself too seriously. I am a HUGE goofball, and I want someone who I can be a huge goofball with. I just don't see that in him.

Besides, I went to watch a movie at his house last night.... And he was dressed in jeans, a polo shirt (tucked in with a belt) and boots.... TO SIT AT HOME!!! Who does that?? Not to mention the fact that when we sat down to watch the movie, I sat on the couch, and where did he sit? In his armchair! Are you kidding me?

This guy just doesn't do it for me. Sucks too cause he's a nice guy. :rolleyes:

I hate psycho ex-girlfriends.

Although psycho ex-girlfriends certainly make the "just a little bit crazy 'cause they're hurting" ex-girlfriends look a lot better in comparison.

I'm glad I don't have to deal with that anymore - I have one that used to call me on Valentine's Day and leave a crying, half-way hysterical message. It got a little much after, say, the first five minutes of the first one.

I thought we promised to never mention that again?

Well, the bunny boiling on the stove was a bit much...