The whole 3rd person thing is annoying-- when he speaks normally he is fine--- and its all better if he didn't talk at all!!!! Both of them have GREAT arms... well bodies as a whole--- but to be the appear really short, how tall are they?

The Rock is really tall, like 6'5" or taller.

The boy sang me to sleep last night... he'd better be careful, i just might fall in love.

It's the Samoan, I'm sure of it.

His stunt double (Tanoai Reed) is even taller. The resemblance between the too is amazing.

Most Samoans are short and fat. Bobby is an exception.

He needs to do something bad right now before I start idealizing him. He is not perfect. No boy is perfect. So he should do something to compromise his perfection, like, now.

Should I call the new boy? I had fun when we hung out last week. I think I like the boy. He knew I was going to Vegas last week, so he said we would talk when I got back. Does that mean I'm supposed to call him? Or should I just wait to call him.

Oh, the tangled web we weave...

I called the boy. And I got the voicemail. I wasn't ready for the voicemail. I think I sounded like a jackass.

Oh dear. Ran into a guy that graduated a year ahead of me in law school today, he works in my building. He takes the same set of elevators (there's 3 sets, each only going to certain floors b/c it's a 38 floor building). Nice guy, he had somewhat of a crush on me, but he's not someone I think I could date. He was SO happy to see me today and wants to take me to lunch and stuff and gave me his card. So that could be a potentially sticky situation. He actually looked me up and down and said I looked great. I almost laughed at that.

Thankfully i'm now sorta "on again" with the guy i've had a very odd dating history with for the past three years... dated very casually for awhile, tried to date kinda more seriously last Dec/Jan, that ended badly and we didn't talk again until July. But now we're on again... He's a great guy and I care a great deal about him, and despite our weird dating history, we have a healthy relationship/friendship.

Just thought I would bump this up to say....

I am a nice person! Why can't guys just be nice TO ME?!? I think I deserve it.

Also, how many times am I going to have one of my guy friends or ex-boyfriends say, "You're a great girl, I don't know what's wrong with these guys."? :p

AMEN!!!

I'm tired of liking boys who aren't really worth my time. Yet I still like them. I know you can't help who you like....but c'mon.:(

You can't always help who you like, but you can help who you pay attention to . . . and how much time you spend with people.

JAMES!!! Where have you been when I have needed more boy advice?!?!? :(

I don't know if this goes here but I thought I'd give it a try.

My fiance has the worst taste in couches. He knows comfort but he doesn't understand that comfort can sometimes equal ugly.

Then, he thinks that a nightstand is enough for both of us to hold our undergarments. :eek: I had to set him straight that I need separate drawers for my bras, undies, socks, & pj's.

Let me paraphrase what the boy told me today "I'm not into the dating scene...want to go to a movie Thursday night?"

Ummm wtf?

Advice to men:

DO NOT invite two girls that you are involved with to the SAME PARTY! :mad:

If you have an agreement with someone that you are not exclusive- that is perfectly fine. But seriously, does it take a rocket scientist to know not to bring both girls that you are seeing into the same place at the same time?!? :confused:

Oh, and the excuse is the best part:

Are you ready for it???



"I figured there would be more people here to create more of a buffer between you and her."

That's right kiddos. :rolleyes:

Ok, everyone. I need ya'll to send me some courage to go to this guy and tell him everything I want to say. No more letting people walk all over me.


I'm nervous. :(

Didn't he know that just because he saw it work in a movie or a sitcom that reality might kick his butt?

Apparently not.

Him: "I guess I was naive enough to think that I could keep this going on."

Me: "I don't think naive is the word you're looking for here. I think that word is STUPID."

:( :rolleyes: :(

The older teacher warned me today some of the "young men" in my district have a "sex club" where they pick out female teachers and see who can sleep with her first.

How come men get to have all the fun clubs? I was just asked to join the union, not to go to the bar on Fri/Sat and pick out men to sleep with.

You should get some of your coworkers together and start an equivalent club.

Here Here !!! Of course, knowing you work at a school you attended.. it might be kinda weird to compete with your old english teacher for that cute, new history guy.....

I think my new nickname will be craddle robber. I just found out (over facebook none the less) that the guy I have been talking to just turned 18 last WEEK. He told me he was a freshman so I just figured that meant he was 18 about to be 19. I'll be 22 in a little over 2 months. damn, this just feels so wrong.

Yeah that would give me a little bit of a shudder.... But, hey if you really like the guy.....

Last fall I dated a guy who was 20 when I was 23. So don't worry, you're not alone. :)

YEP. this sums up my past few weeks. And I keep asking myself how I can NOT know after all this time.

How do you not know?

-Rudey

I understand what happened. But the truth is that if it's there, you know.

-Rudey

Don't let him rush you into saying something that you just don't feel. It's ok not to know.... I don't think it means that you don't *that word that I think you're talking about* him, or that you won't ever.... It means exactly what you said... You just don't know right now. There is nothing wrong with that. :)

I don't think that is NECESSARILY true.... Some people just take longer to figure it out. :)

No it means she doesn't feel that way.

Why can't girls seriously rub some manure between their legs and grow some balls?

-Rudey

Haha... Eww. :p

Maybe she doesn't feel that way now... but it doesn't mean that she doesn't really care for the guy a lot. Sometimes the l-word just takes a little bit more time. (At this point I'm kinda talking about girls in general).

I say, if you he really does make you happy, stick with it and see what happens. :) If you know he's just not it... Well then you can decide to move on or stick around.

Oh, and jharb I know you weren't asking for advice.... It just got me thinking. :)

In this case it means I'm extremely cautious to say it. I've had an ex with a restraining order and I'm not one to say it willy nilly. I'm not saying the guy I'm with would be like that but I just freak out when it's said. I broke up with a guy for saying it to me once. I'm just overly cautious in relationships anyway after past things have gone sour.

I care a lot for him, I let him drive my car even. I just don't know if I can say it at this point in my life. Geez...I just needed to vent!

It's ok, you're just explaining what I wansn't around to verbalize.

Hm, I can read a lot into this that you're not actually saying, although it's possible that I have an overactive imagination.

How many times have I wanted to just say, "I don't love you anymore."

It's tough when the person in question tells you exactly how much he is in love with you. All the time.

So you love him but can't say it? It's not like you don't know. You just don't want to say it.

All I'm saying is that you already know the answer but evidently have fears of saying it.

-Rudey

You know a lot of the back story though. Would you care to expand? (In a PM if necessary)