why do I still like this stupid a**hole? he's a jerk. But I keep holding out hope that he'll come up to me and we'll end up talking again. I'm stupid.

I invited boy I smooched exclusively for a month straight 6 years ago and haven't talked to in 4 years(before we spoke 2 days ago-ish) to my birthday. He said he would love to come. Then I started getting butterflies for some reason. Even though I hadn't seen him in 4 years. So my friend suggested I google him and see if there is a picture. And I did. And he is still cute.
Then I had a dream last night I moved down South with him, on the condition that I get to drive half way to Atlanta from wherever we are to meet my friend who lives in Marietta every weekend to shop.

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN OH GODS OF DATING??

It means you secretly have a fear that you are beginning to be trapped into a monotonous life . . . a career where its an everyday grind of sameness for thirty years where you end up alone eaten by wild animals . . ala Bridjet Jones.

Ah, James. You always have the most interesting relationship ideas.

Ok, so my cute happy hour boy has shown the first signs of weirdness. The guy knows less about college football than I do. And let me tell ya, that is a tough thing to accomplish.

I didn't think it would be possible to find a man in Texas who doesn't know that the OU/Texas game is played in Dallas. But apparently I have found one.

I just find that weird. :confused:

And, is it weird that I find someone less attractive because of something like that?

It means you don't really like him at all. You're more or less looking for an excuse to not like him.

You know, I never thought about it before, but you could be right..... The times we've hung out, I've had fun and enjoyed talking to him. He's cute, and he's a good kisser.... But there was never that "WOW" spark moment. Shrug. Oh well.

Thanks! :)

I am a big college football fan and always find it odd and unattractive when a guy knows less about it than I do. But that's never stopped me from dating them. lol

How do I manage to always end up with the best friends of the guys I crush on?

It's a curse that so many of us have.

Somebody needs to tell girls that if you're afraid that another girl is trying to steal your boyfriend, the inappropriate reaction would be to start nagging your boyfriend when he hangs out with that girl, asking him why he doesn't stay in with you instead, and on the whole just becoming a pain in the ass. This will backfire, since you will become the shrewish girlfriend and she will become the fun girl he would rather be hanging out with.

Also, honey, I am not trying to steal your boyfriend.

I'm far too busy trying to steal some other girl's boyfriend to do that.

jk jk!

I HATE JP!!! For starters all during Midnight Madness I have a clear shot of him flirting with this other girl. Who, I think, is not all that cute. Plus, she's werid!!!

:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

I finally let out the words I've been holding in for several months--the boy was forced to listen this time! Of course, it helped that I'd had a significant amount of liquid courage........

One of my sorority sisters invited me to a BBQ yesterday because she said there was a guy she wanted to introduce me to. She ended up not being able to come, but I went anyway with a friend. I met a cute guy and we hit it off so I gave him my phone number. Turns out it was the guy she wanted to set me up with. Crazy. :)

$10 says I'll never hear from the boy who took my number on Saturday night.
But thats okay.

I really think Matt's been looking through my phone and reading my text messages.