Advice for PNMs - What should I wear for recruitment?!?
I wrote this in the Mom Thread, but thought I’d make a separate “fashion” post for Mom and PNM discussion (thanks @NYCMS for your tips too!). I’m a young(ish) alum, and hopefully this will help!
These are some general tips I pass to my rec gals, remember you're not hunting a boyfriend at recruitment, you're aiming for comfort and showing that you can be appropriately put together for the occasion: Clothes
Shoes
Jewelry
Hair and Makeup
What to bring with you on the day **most campuses will not let you take your bag into the party with you, so a tote of some sort is a good one to bring, and it's going to sit outside on the ground so leave your designer stuff in the dorm**
Here are some examples of clothes to use as a reference, sorry it's so long, I tried to be size inclsive: SHORTS/SKIRTS **If you are worried if denim is okay on your campus, just be safe and go with linen/chino** https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/produ...ens-shorts.jsp https://www.jcrew.com/p/womens_categ...ame=ivory-navy https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/produ...ens-shorts.jsp https://www.eloquii.com/tiered-ruffl...6_colorCode=23 https://www.jcrew.com/p/womens_categ...=coral-blossom https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...jacquard_skirt https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...red_kori_skirt https://www.eloquii.com/draper-james...0_colorCode=16 SUNDRESSES: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...urk/kori_dress https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...wer_lace_dress https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...ral_jill_dress https://www.modcloth.com/shop/dresse...es/158006.html https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...ue_pleat_dress https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d..._flounce_dress https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...red_lace_shift https://www.eloquii.com/plaid-dress-...1_colorCode=33 https://www.macys.com/shop/product/p...tegoryID=37038 https://www.macys.com/shop/product/m...%26slotId%3D61 https://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/produ...ns-dresses.jsp https://www.macys.com/shop/product/c...e%26slotId%3D9 PREF: https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d..._marilyn_dress https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...avy_mena_dress https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...msterdam_dress https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...oral_ace_dress https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...n_picnic_dress https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...eft_bank_dress https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/d...i/pepin_sheath https://www.eloquii.com/shift-dress-...3_colorCode=32 https://www.eloquii.com/draped-front...2_colorCode=54 https://www.eloquii.com/off-the-shou...8_colorCode=15 https://www.macys.com/shop/product/l...%26slotId%3D38 Some of the sundresses could work for pref as well, depending on the cut and the fabric. Number one rule is be comfortable in your dress, undergarments, shoes, jewelry, hair, makeup because you're in them for a long time! Good luck with recruitment, feel free to ask any questions, and remember that it only takes one chapter on your schedule to join greek life! |
Y'ALL.
NOW IS NOT THE TIME FOR THE NEW 5 INCH HEELS YOU HAVE NOT WORN YET. IT IS NOT. YOU WILL BE WALKING. AND WAITING. AND STANDING. A LOT. YOU WILL BE SO SAD AND IT WILL SHOW ON YOUR FACE. WEAR THEM BEFORE THAT FIRST DAY. |
Or only wear them for pref.
Lower heels (or none) on the days with many more parties. |
If you live in or near ANY city (or visiting) where there’s a store called Name Brand Clothing, SHOP THERE for your recruitment wardrobe!
They mark everything 75% off retail. Most items have the price tags from the big named stores still attached. I’ve purchased several dresses (brands that Macy’s carries) for a steal. My god-daughter borrowed a few dresses (Ralph Lauren, Thalia, INC, etc.) when she went through Recruitment a couple of years ago. They have every kind of attire and more — casual, cocktail, shoes, swimwear, lingerie, pjs, coats, jewelry, accessories, kids clothes, menswear, a further marked down section, even household items. I got Coach boots there for 40 bucks! Some locations have Lilly Pulitzer and Tory Burch! www.halfofhalf.com Oklahoma - Tulsa (the “mothership” — about half a football field in size), OKC (3 stores), Lawton Arkansas - Ft. Smith, Little Rock, Hot Springs, Springdale Missouri - St. Louis, Springfield, Joplin Texas - Fort Worth, Irving, Richardson, Lewisville, Mesquite, Arlington (I went to 4 locations when I was in the Dallas area for a wedding a few years back! Purchased about $750 in retail for less tha $225!) Kansas - Wichita, Lexena Nebraska - Omaha Tennesee - Bartlett (Memphis area) I’ve been shopping there for so long that I even purchased some items I wore to Recruitment at NBC! Even found a glittery black and gold pin case for my Theta God-daughter for her initiation. |
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Where do you ladies fall on the fake nails question? I still remember being stabbed (accidentally) by some long ones when picking up a PNM my junior year, but they were common at my school, and I know at some schools they are fairly standard? |
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Get the nails polished in a pretty color, either nude if they like natural or another fun color that coordinates with their outfits. If they are nail-biters (or if they like an all-natural look), then get a good manicure but no polish. |
Agree with all of the above.
Also - DO NOT WEAR FRAGRANCE. Scented deodorant, or the scent of your soap/shampoo/hair product -those are pretty innocuous, so - go easy, but OK. Scented lotions, eaux de toilette, cologne, body spray, perfume? NO. NO. NO. NO. You are going to be in crowded spaces, it's going to be hot, and even though you think your Jungle Jasmine smells divine, it is tropical throat punch to anyone with scent sensitivities. I personally react to strong fragrances by getting a headache, sore throat and itchy nose. Also, in Summer rush, you might attract flying insects while waiting outside to go into a house - and even if you aren't allergic to stings, someone near you might be. Save the Love's Baby Soft for another time. My other "beware" comes from a personal issue I had back in the day. Our first round was ice water at every house. I was not paying attention to the way I was fiddling with my water cup/glass and I would put my mouth on it several different places. Since I was reapplying lipstick every few houses, I ended up with a severe case of Clown Mouth - my lipstick was all over the place. I finally realized this on a break when I checked a mirror. Don't be like me. |
Under jewelry, I would add: Do not wear a watch. If you do, and if you look at it during a party, the sister you're talking to may misinterpret it as "She's bored and wants to see how much more time she has to spend here because she wants out!" ... And then you don't get invited back.
If you feel naked without a watch, start wearing a bracelet on whichever wrist you normally wear your watch. Start now, so you get used to the idea that you can't see what time it is by looking at your wrist. From now until FR, if you need to check the time, use your cell phone - which you most likely won't be allowed to take into parties anyway. Edit: mkaytay mentioned tampons and pads. You may want to carry a couple even if you're not due. If a fellow PNM finds herself suddenly in need, come to the rescue - and you may find yourself with a new good friend. |
Awesome, concise info... I've shared with some of my fave rec girls! THANKS!!!
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I would think fake nails would be fine as long as they're not pointy or dragon lady length. My daughter is a nail biter and in an attempt at breaking the habit, she got tips on the other day. Nothing long or weird looking, and with a neutral color. If you like the length of your nails, gel polish in a neutral or classic shade is great. It's not time to do fluorescent green or black.
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I vote yes for fake nails because my real nails are hideous.
But keep it a low key solid polish color. Now is not the time for super long spike pointy ones in highlighter green. |
My usual addition is blotters or coffee filters (cut to a saner size) instead of a bandana for blotting the sweat. They will damage your makeup much, much less.
And yes, yes, yes to aephi alum's suggestion to sharing the wealth with the intimate items! |
If your school has a run-to-the-house on bid day, please PLEASE wear a firm, supportive bra!
Don't be the girl in the viral video! |
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