AI or Collegiate Member?
I'm 22 and just got my BA in May. I didn't join any of the three NPC sororities existing on my campus due to them not being the right "fit" for me and learned there used to be other options on campus so I began inquiries into extension and as a Senior had my idea taken up by two freshman who formed a group of us women into an interest group. Our college has formed an exploratory committee to search NPC groups to consider Coe for colonization. Due to a decision to pursue a teaching license, I'll remain a post-BA student for the next two years and want to stay involved. I just want to know what my membership role can be or what the best role I can fulfilled in a beginning sorority chapter? I'm willing to do anything but just want to be a presence even if it means coming to formal recruitment events or serving in an advisor role.
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Many sororities do not offer alumna initiation. Many sororities only allow undergraduate membership in collegiate chapters. You're going to have to wait and see what happens. No one will have any answers for you here. |
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Truth be told, the values of each of the NPC groups are pretty similar so what is it that you are seeking that 3 orgs couldn't give you? |
Also, is the campus interested in expanding? You can't just form an interest group and expect NPC to show up; that's not how it works. And what would make a new chapter so very different from the three existing groups?
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As I stated, our college campus formed an exploratory committee and are looking into sororities for colonization or re-colonization on our campus this is because the Greek Life adviser and our Student Affairs committee has found we are in the right place for expansion of our Greek Life community. The interest group is a group of women including myself that would be involved in the colony and then sorority chapter. We came together because of our relationships and our desire to present more options to our campus women because the last several years has seen a huge increase in campus enrollment and women going through recruitment. I had friends in each of the existing sororities but there are personal relationships that prevented me receiving bids. Researching various sororities, I have found several that align with my views better than the existing ones. There are those in the interest group with similar ideals and experiences. A new sorority would give more women the involvement in Greek Life and the women can create how the new sorority is perceived instead of the specific type women in the current organizations. I am not doing this just for me as it has been taken up by others.
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First and foremost, AI is an honor bestowed on a few chosen women and every sorority has its own requirements. Even if a sorority does AI, don't expect them to convey that honor on someone who has been active in an interest group and is recently graduated. Just like recent collegiate member graduates, a newly minted AI is not an appropriate adviser for a group she was already close to. She's still too much of a peer and lacks both the experience and perspective required to deal with collegians. Additionally, an AI doesn't hang out and enjoy collegiate life and experiences. It's a very different thing and usually it's the local alumnae who are tasked with the process of vetting AI candidates. You are not for all intents and purposes a fifth year undergraduate. You have received a Bachelor's degree and are an unclassified graduate student. This is an important distinction as sororities have very specific language detailing who is eligible for collegiate membership. I have seen several that prohibit graduate student that specifically prohibit anyone who has a bachelor's degree, no matter what their current student status might be. One last thing. From your other posts, you said that you went through recruitment while an undergraduate and did not receive a bid. That caused you to start the push for an interest group. This is very different from not clicking with sororities on your campus. |
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Whoa there, what negativity? There has been zero negativity in this thread. Expansion and, way further down the road, colonization is a very arduous and involved process that takes a strong Panhellenic community, alumnae support, and a dedicated group of exceptional collegiates. AI is an amazing honor bestowed on women who have proven themselves to be leaders in their community, often after years of service to the sorority. If GCers told you that you could totally initiate when your dream sorority comes to campus or that AI would be a snap, they'd be doing you a disservice.
I promise that (at least so far) no one's trying to be bitchy or snarky or negative, they're just being honest and trying to help you understand. |
Just because a student is involved in the process of bringing a new group to campus does not mean that said student will actually be chosen to join. Each organization is allowed to choose, their own members. Once the group is picked, the members of the interest group would have to go through the process of applying for membership. It is extremely unusual for NPC groups to accept all interest group members site unseen. The members chosen for a new colony are critical to the success of that chapter, so they are usually very particular about who they issue bids to initially. It's not a done deal because you came up with the idea and stuck around after graduation until colonization. It just does t work that way.
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And as irishpipes said, unless your school has a cap on the number of people that can be in a Greek organization, an increased number of women going through rush does NOT lead to an increased number of women being cut or not receiving bids. |
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I know that sometimes there is a push for a historically Jewish group, but even then, the applicable groups can say "no thanks" in a quick minutes. |
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