PNAM needing advice

[ms_gwyn]

Hello everyone, this is my first post to GC, but a long time luker. I have a question and I'm a tiny bit confused.

I was a PNM of Group A in the 90s. Just very recently I wanted to reassociate myself with group A, the thing about is they don't have a collegiate chapter anywhere in my area. The alumnae chapter does not seem to be active at all, I've done some research.

I was thinking about inquiring of other GLO's that have chapters in the greater metro area, because I would love to help with collegiate chapters, in addition to there other volunteering opportunities.

My question is, since I was a PNM of Group A, would that make me ineligible to pursue PNAM with other GLOs?

Ms. Gwyn

[Tom Earp]

NO, in a nut shell, if you were never Initiated in said group. then you are not a member!

You therefore have the right to persue another Greek Organization!:)

Now the situation is find the right one!

The thing is, there are many Greek Organizations out Here are Great, it is just finding one that you fit in with! That being the People that you are Comfortable with as a Sister!

That being the Question, I give You Jill! She is a black female who affiliated with a So Called WGLO AP, I then defy you to find a Happier Person and a More devoute Backer of GreekDom!

The only thing wrong with JillyBean, she is a F- Rollor Coaster Nut!:D

Sorry Sweety, cannot let that go by!:cool:

LUV YA!:)

It is yours to ask and seek, just like any new possible memeber in a Rush Situation!

I and I am sure all wish you the very best of Luck! The dumbest Queastion, is the one you never ask!;)

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

What Tom said is correct.

I'm surprised that in a city as big as LA, there isn't a chapter somewhere near you. Granted, I'm not from there but Gamma Phi seems to have numerous alumnae chapters in that area, I would think other GLO's are the same.

My alumnae chapter's first AI was in your same situation and came to us wanting to initiate many years after college.

Good Luck.

[ms_gwyn]

Thank you for your replies, I'm in sort of the same situation as Jill, that being african-american...

But the problem with Group A is that they have at least 3 alumnae chapters in LA, but there are no collegate chapters. I have had an idea of attempting to bring one here, but it seems to me that all the universities are pretty much saturated at the moment. Of couse working at a college could have given me the wrong impression. I would love to help out a collegate chapters in addition to the community service and other volunteer opportunities. I'm very big on helping non-profits

Group A is still in the running (I don't believe I have anymore "issues" with them).

But I am in the process of contacting 4 others that fit my ideas and have great philantrophies.

[Tom Earp]

I think the important thing is:

1. You are interested.

2. There is more than one Greek Organization out there to look at.

3. Contact someone from a Soroity and introduce your self to them. Explain why you did not join in undergraduate years and why you are wanting to do it now.

I dont feel color should be that worriesome to you as you can see on GC. Bounderys are being crossed alll of the time.

Sure there may be some that still do, but the majority dont!:)

Just remember, "the dumbest question is the one you do not ask!":D

Good Luck and keep us posted! Shame Jill is not near you, you would have a ball! One Neato Lady and AP!:)

[ms_gwyn]

Thank you Tom and SmartBlondeGPhB for your replies.

This is a scary thing for me, after what happened with Group A in college, I had a very bad downward spiral, first time being away from home and just the sheer size of the university that I attended was a bit of a culture shock, but I adjusted.

I've put in a call to Group A and have contacted a few other GLOs for their specific requirements.

Each GLO is so special in their own way, its kind of hard. But I have 3 that are pulling my heart strings and hopefully they will be positive experiences, in just going through the process.

Ms. Gwyn

[pinkyphimu]

good luck!! i hope you find your home!

[GPhiBLtColonel]

...I, for one, am interested to hear more! What is the latest news? Everyone here on GC is quite helpful so do not be afraid to ask for aid if you need it. What college do you work at (poor grammar...sorry!)?

[rho4life]

Are you only looking at NPC, or NPHC as well?????

[Sistermadly]

Originally posted by Tom Earp
That being the Question, I give You Jill! She is a black female who affiliated with a So Called WGLO AP, I then defy you to find a Happier Person and a More devoute Backer of GreekDom!


She's not the only one, Tom.. there are quite a few of us on GC. ;)

[rainbowbrightCS]

I wish you the best of luck, and keep us updated.

[ms_gwyn]

Originally posted by GPhiBLtColonel What college do you work at (poor grammar...sorry!)?

I used to work for Mount St. Mary's College in LA right next to (Doheny Campus) USC, and now in the process of looking another job at all the colleges and universities in the area, its been quite hard, I've haven't had a full-time job in over a year, the market is very tough in LA, but I'm also pursuing a home based business in addition to my part-time job.


Originally posted by rho4life
Are you only looking at NPC, or NPHC as well?????

Actually,

I'm just exploring NPC at the moment. I don't think NPHC has AI and if they do, its an option that I will explore if the NPC doesn't work out.

I was actally a "pledge" for an NPC and at the moment I just feel more comfortable in the NPC arena.


Originally posted by GPhiBLtColonel ...I, for one, am interested to hear more! What is the latest news? Everyone here on GC is quite helpful so do not be afraid to ask for aid if you need it.

I'm going to follow the ladies lead on the Rush thread and give the chapters names (the Muses names) I've contacted 6 NPC groups that I was very interested in and have collegiate chapters in the Los Angeles area.

Clio, Thalia, and Melpomene came back stating that I need to know someone in the org to recommend me for AI. I haven't heard from Caliope and Erato, but I suspect that is because of the holidays.

I'm only pursing Urania their HQ was kind enough to send me several groups in the area to contact and I've done so. I'm now waiting to hear from the President(s) and hopefully meet with her or the group for some kind of project or gathering.

I'm quite thrilled at the moment, because this groups ideals, purpose and philantrophy are very touching, beside I just love their symbols.

Ms. Gwyn

[DGMarie]

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[ms_gwyn]

Originally posted by DGMarie
Is one of the groups you are pursuing the group you pledged at? I think this would be a good foot in the door.

They are on my list but not the group that I'm currently pursuing, they will be the last one that I approach if they others don't follow through.

I do have contact info for them, but they do not have a local collegate chapter here in Los Angeles, if I go with them, I would attempt to bring a chapter in the LA area, back in 1998 I did take some steps in re-affiliating with them, but only tentative and I'm looking for a chapter that hopefully has women that are closer to my age and driving distance, the alumnae chapter that I spoke with had neither.

[rho4life]

Originally posted by ms_gwyn
I used to work for Mount St. Mary's College in LA right next to (Doheny Campus) USC, and now in the process of looking another job at all the colleges and universities in the area, its been quite hard, I've haven't had a full-time job in over a year, the market is very tough in LA, but I'm also pursuing a home based business in addition to my part-time job.



Actually,

I'm just exploring NPC at the moment. I don't think NPHC has AI and if they do, its an option that I will explore if the NPC doesn't work out.

I was actally a "pledge" for an NPC and at the moment I just feel more comfortable in the NPC arena.



Ms. Gwyn


While I totally respect your decision, and it's great that you have choices, all the NPHC women's orgs do AI. I was an AI in a NPHC org, and I've seen moms who get inducted after their daughters do it. LA is one of the best areas to be b/c everybody has at least one, if not two or three or more chapters in the LA area.

Good Luck!

[cutiepatootie]

In the So calif area alone is LA NPC ALum Assoc, SAn Gabriel NPC ALum Assoc and Inland empire NPC Alum association.

As for other GLO's I am sure you can find them on their respective sites. But being proud of mine andreading your situation


Alpha Phi has UCLA, USC, Loyola Marymount,CSU Northridge, irvine,CHapman, and CSU long Beach for coll chapters.... as for Alum Chapters they all have tons of alum associations attached to them as well.

Either way best of luck in your search. I too was an alum initate and seeing GLOS welcoming more and more everyday.

[navane]

Originally posted by ms_gwyn
I used to work for Mount St. Mary's College in LA right next to (Doheny Campus) USC, and now in the process of looking another job at all the colleges and universities in the area, its been quite hard, I've haven't had a full-time job in over a year, the market is very tough in LA, but I'm also pursuing a home based business in addition to my part-time job.



Say, by any chance, are you a student affairs officer?


.....Kelly :)

[rho4life]

Originally posted by cutiepatootie
In the So calif area alone is LA NPC ALum Assoc, SAn Gabriel NPC ALum Assoc and Inland empire NPC Alum association.

As for other GLO's I am sure you can find them on their respective sites. But being proud of mine andreading your situation


Alpha Phi has UCLA, USC, Loyola Marymount,CSU Northridge, irvine,CHapman, and CSU long Beach for coll chapters.... as for Alum Chapters they all have tons of alum associations attached to them as well.

Either way best of luck in your search. I too was an alum initate and seeing GLOS welcoming more and more everyday.

Is it just recently that Alpha Phi has started doing more AI, or has it always been this way? I've "met" several here on GC, but none of the Alpha Phi's I've known who went undergrad seem to mention it. Is it more popular in different regions?????

:)

[Jill1228]

Alpha Phi has always done AI. Frances Willard was the first Alpha Phi AI in 1875, I believe

Originally posted by rho4life
Is it just recently that Alpha Phi has started doing more AI, or has it always been this way? I've "met" several here on GC, but none of the Alpha Phi's I've known who went undergrad seem to mention it. Is it more popular in different regions?????

:)

[33girl]

Originally posted by rho4life
Is it just recently that Alpha Phi has started doing more AI, or has it always been this way? I've "met" several here on GC, but none of the Alpha Phi's I've known who went undergrad seem to mention it. Is it more popular in different regions?????

:)

This article (http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30513) states that Alpha Phi has been one of the organizations that has taken a more proactive role as far as alumna initiation is concerned.

[ms_gwyn]

Well this is quite exciting

I've mailed the co-president of Urania and have just gotten and email from Calliope and someone hopefully will contact me within the next month.

Both orgs are wonderful and I just have to see if they are interested in AI and if I'm a good fit within each group.

But I'm getting ahead of myself, I have to talk with actual people here in the area before any type of decision is made, I just know where my heart is and I hope THAT will be confirmed.

Ms. Gwyn

[ms_gwyn]

Originally posted by 33girl
This article (http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30513) states that Alpha Phi has been one of the organizations that has taken a more proactive role as far as alumna initiation is concerned.

methinks guys are hinting at something :D

[33girl]

Originally posted by ms_gwyn
methinks guys are hinting at something :D

nooo, just finding a link.

[CutiePie2000]

ms_gwyn,
I have added you to The List (http://forums.greekchat.com/gcforums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=41373).

[ms_gwyn]

Originally posted by navane
Say, by any chance, are you a student affairs officer?


.....Kelly :)

Actually Kelly,

I pretty much do Administrative Assistant/Office Manager type stuff. But I also have experience in Admissions and HR. If I qualify for an SAO position, I apply for it. I like working in Academia, most of my career has been in Higher Ed.

Ms. Gwyn

[rho4life]

Good Luck Ms. G. Just remember to spend time get to know each group of ladies, so that you find a group you feel comfortable with, so you can fully enjoy the experience :)

[ms_gwyn]

I just wanted to let you all know who are interested that I haven't given up on AI or Urania.

I'm currently in a holding pattern of actually getting to speak with individual chapters!

I've have contacted 2 and haven't heard back from either and I'm waiting to contact a third until March.

I do have a couple people here on GC helping me out a bit and truly am grateful to them, since their lives come first than this situation and I understand that.

This is what I want and this is what I'll get, I will wait as long as I have to.

I don't believe that I will go to the next GLO on the list, this is the one. I know it.

Ms. Gwyn

[Jill1228]

I am wishing you luck ms. gwyn. If I can help you in any way, please PM me or email me!

Tom is a wise man (not to mention lovable)...he has great advice! :D

[ms_gwyn]

well I have a quick update that is in the right direction.

Some wonderful women here on GC have been helping me in my venture and I just found out that my name has been pass to the President of an area AC and she seemed interested in wanting to invite me to functions and getting to know me.

She has not contacted me yet (it being way to short of time) but I'm being positive and this is a step in the right direction.

Ms. Gwyn

[Jill1228]

Sounds like you got a good start there hon! :D

[LouisaMay]

I'm cheering for you!:D

LM

[ms_gwyn]

another quick update:

I will not give too much away this this -- things are moving in a positive direction and hopefully that fat lady is warming up in the wings of the theater to sing

:D

[Jill1228]

I am wishing you luck...I am ready to sing a good song! :D

[SATX*APhi]

Best of luck!!

[ladyj39]

Could it be? Another AI about to find her home?

Good Luck!!!

[MelodyCat]

Yay! I'll keep my fingers crossed for you! :D

[polarpi]

Best of luck...we're looking forward to your sharing of news! :)

[TriDeltaGal]

Good Luck!

[LouisaMay]

Yay, ms_gwyn!!!
It's your job to keep the rest of us hopeful;)

Fingers Crossed for you!!

LM

[Jen]

Good luck!! I really hope things go your way!

[bsp-mich24]

Good Luck -- keeping fingers crossed!!:D

[ms_gwyn]

Well Ladies

another update, things are moving at a good pace and I will be meeting with an IO of Urania within the week and she seems very supportive, I also may be her guest at an upcoming event to meet others in the group.

i'm cautiously excited about these meetings and i may find a home by the fall.

With the way things are going in my life right now this is the best news for everyone, for a bit there it seemed to move very slowly and then picked up very, very quickly. At the moment the pace is set just right and I like it.

All of you have been so nice and supportive of me that it has made all the difference in the world. For a bit there I was considering giving up on the entire process. I'm so glad that I didn't.

I can't express in words how all you have helped me and I don't think I can ever repay that.

THANK YOU

[OTW]

Glad to hear that you're meeting with an IO!

I like how you spoke about being "cautiously excited". I've been keeping up with your experiences, and it's awesome to see that you're having a great time finding your home.

Can't wait to hear the details of this meeting!

[ms_gwyn]

I had lunch today with 2 IOs of Urania. Things went very well and we spoke on many different things. I even gave some ideas on fundraising for the philanthropy. It was all very exciting. I'll also be going to a scholarship luncheon next weekend.

Things are going in a very positve direction and I can't help to be so happy about it all.

ms. gwyn

[bsp-mich24]

Things are going in a very positve direction and I can't help to be so happy about it all. Have fun at the scholarship luncheon! :)

[navane]

Wow, ms_gwyn! It sounds like things are going great for you! Keep us posted!

PNAM,

.....Kelly :)

[ms_gwyn]

Hey all,

I went to the scholarship luncheon today and had a wonderful time. It was kind of a heady experience and I reverted to my shy self, which mostly means that I mostly sat there and listened to conversation and had a few conversation about topics that I loved. I had a brain fart about asking questions, but it wasn't the right kind of setting to do so being in a room with hundreds of women of different GLOs for NPC luncheon.

My next move I believe is too send a thank you note to my sponsor in "snail mail" form and ask if there are any upcoming events that I could be invited to so to get to know the members more personal setting. I think this is the correct move...isn't it?

I don't feel it's correct, even in this day and age to send it electronically, for such an important event as this, especially since I would like to be apart of their group. What do you all think?

ms. gwyn

[OTW]

Originally posted by ms_gwyn
Hey all,

I went to the scholarship luncheon today and had a wonderful time. It was kind of a heady experience and I reverted to my shy self, which mostly means that I mostly sat there and listened to conversation and had a few conversation about topics that I loved. I had a brain fart about asking questions, but it wasn't the right kind of setting to do so being in a room with hundreds of women of different GLOs for NPC luncheon.

My next move I believe is too send a thank you note to my sponsor in "snail mail" form and ask if there are any upcoming events that I could be invited to so to get to know the members more personal setting. I think this is the correct move...isn't it?

I don't feel it's correct, even in this day and age to send it electronically, for such an important event as this, especially since I would like to be apart of their group. What do you all think?

ms. gwyn

Ms. Gwyn,

You have such a positive attitude about this and I just wanted to commend you on it!

I've always been a big fan of snail mail because it provides a more intimate and personal tone. The fact that you were invited to a wonderful event like a NPC luncheon is a great thing and an honor, IMO, as most NPC alumnae would not invite just any average Jane to this event.

To me, e-mail seems the most convenient, but...correspondence such as a "Thank You Note" will probably be and hopefully be much appreciated. Just knowing that you took the time from your busy schedule to show some gratitude will be a plus to your progress. It certainly won't hurt to do so.

Good luck in your endeavors and keep us posted!

[Jill1228]

Co-sign!
Nice stationery or even a hand written card!

Glad you had a good time!

Originally posted by OohTeenyWahine
Ms. Gwyn,

You have such a positive attitude about this and I just wanted to commend you on it!

I've always been a big fan of snail mail because it provides a more intimate and personal tone. The fact that you were invited to a wonderful event like a NPC luncheon is a great thing and an honor, IMO, as most NPC alumnae would not invite just any average Jane to this event.

To me, e-mail seems the most convenient, but...correspondence such as a "Thank You Note" will probably be and hopefully be much appreciated. Just knowing that you took the time from your busy schedule to show some gratitude will be a plus to your progress. It certainly won't hurt to do so.

Good luck in your endeavors and keep us posted!

[GPhiBLtColonel]

I agree with OTW and Jill - a short handwritten note is the BEST thing to do! All you need to do is tell your sponsor is how much you appreciated the invitation and how much you enjoyed yourself and that it has further crystallized your desire to become a blah-blah-blah (I forget what symbols you are using). And be sure to end by saying that you look forward to the next opportunity to get involved. You could also re-state what you talked about at the other lunch you went to --e.g. your willingness to help if desired at any upcoming philanthropic events.... Just double check to make sure there are no spelling or grammar errors and it is legible!!!!;)

Sounds like it was a great afternoon!

:)

[bsp-mich24]

Ditto what OTW, Jill & GPhiBLtColonel. :)

[ms_gwyn]

I just wanted ya'll to know that I've hit a road bump in my journey and I think the FAT LADY is packing up for the day.

I've have her on speed dial to call her back real soon.

I hope to still be a part of Urania, but I have put some feelers out to some other organizations.

With this time of year, its going to be slow moving because of summer and convention season, I really don't except to hear anything but I still very positive and will work on how to get invited back to some events with Urania.

In the mean time I'm also going to contact my "pledge sorority" and ask them some hard questions about my particular situation.

If you guys are not up on THAT situation, go here (http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=45528). I just want to make sure that everything was done "correctly", I was never given a clear explaination on WHY and if they did the procedures correctly, hopefully I can get some answers. I'm not bitter, just very curious. Some people that I've talked to recently have raised some doubts and since its been over 10 years and the chapter is no longer in operation perhaps I can some real answers.

ms. gwyn

[Jill1228]

Hey girl hang in there! Are there any other events planned or are things just slow because of the summer and convention coming up?

I started my search in the summer and things were a hell of a lot slower

Hang in there

[tinydancer]

Don't be discouraged. A lot of groups really slow things down in the summer (mine does) and it's hard to be patient.

Good luck with your search; I wouldn't count Urania out just yet. Things have a way of working out.

[ms_gwyn]

Hello Ladies,

I wanted to give you a brief update of what is happening in my journey.

I had such a positive experience with Urania and fell head over heels in love with the women who were helping me, that I nearly got my heart broken when things didnt work out. Not to worry, the best thing that has come out of the experience is that I count these ladies as friends, even though we will not be sisters in [insert GLO name here].

I have contacted a few other groups and have gotten a not so positive result from one (but very glad that I got to speak with someone at least, yay) and now I move on to

Polyhymnia, to be honest with you, this was/is one of my "Dream" organizations. I feel such a connection to them, of course superficial in nature) but nonetheless, I have that connection.

Now I'm just in the very beginning stages, I have had a few email conversations and have some paperwork to fill out, of course this by no means, means that I will become a member, I'm sure its to send to the AAs in my area so see if they are at all interested in sponsoring me.

You know? I feel a connection with all these groups on so many different levels that it can be confusing, but sitting down, writing out what I want and focus on those things makes it easier for me in this process, I've said before that I will always have a place in my heart to the GLO that I pledged in college, but that doesnt mean that I can't find a different home, a place where I will be just as happy, that's how I feel right now with Polyhymnia.

There is no excitement here, I'm just going on a journey and will see how it turns out, I know that I will find my home and it was the place that I was supposed to be all along, it has just taken me a while to get there.

To the ladies in Urania, thank you for all the time and effort you put into helping me with my journey, you don't know how I felt that you help some random person get into your sisterhood, such a wonderful place and I really do wish that it had worked out, but that door is closed now (it took me a while to see that) and perhaps a new one has opened.


I learned early in life, yet sometimes I need reminding that if I get to excited about something, that something usually doesnt work out, so now I'm just along for the process (what I mean, not getting excited, just being).

As always I will keep everyone informed of my journey and I hope that during this journey that no one has or will get hurt, life is just to short for that.

I think I'm rambling now.....

ms. gwyn

[Jill1228]

Hey girl, I am sending good vibes your way!

[pinkyphimu]

i'm sorry things didnt work with urania, but it looks like you may have another shot with the other group! it stinks you got a poor response from one of the other groups you contacted, but at least it happened early in the process before you invested lots of time. good luck with the next phase of the process.

[LouisaMay]

You have such a great outlook. I'm having trouble staying positive, but your message helped me to see that there never is an absolute end. There are always opportunities. Hang in there!

LM:)

[Measi]

ms_gwyn~

I sympathize, and I hope things go well. I have a firm belief that at some point, I will find my life-long "home" in a sisterhood... but it can be trying at times.

I've also received some unfriendly responses-- but as pinky said... better that it come out in the beginning than later on when you've invested the time.

In the interim, I have my first meeting next week with a GLO that truly speaks to my ideals from their website description. I'm crossing my fingers that things go well and move forward!

[trojangal]

Ms. Gwyn,

We've all heard that when a door shuts, a window opens. I am so sorry to hear that things did not work out with one group, but hope that things do with another.

I am doing AI as well, and discovered that one group does AI in only very rare circumstances, which about broke my heart. Each group has its own way of doing AI and that is just how they choose to do it. There are so many good groups out there that do, it's just a matter of finding the place that you need to be. I think this is much more difficult than formal recruitment.

I talked with a colleague of mine who is in a GLO--she said to look at the creeds of the groups, and that will also help you find the values that are important to you as well.

It's nice to get the support that we are getting from the GCers on this board and the other PNAMs.

Please PM me if you want to talk more!

Cheryl

[ms_gwyn]

Ok hopefully this will be a brief update......

As you know that I have sent off paperwork for both Polyhymnia. I also have paperwork for Euterpe, but I would like to actually speak with someone at National in order to get some clarifications on some points before I send out that paperwork. Let me reiterate that this paperwork is for introductionary purposes only.

Then suddenly after some long hard honesty with myself and some tears, I decided to contact Terpsicore. And I have been invited to a meeting with them sometime in December.


Like I have stated in all my messages, I do know what I want from these organizations and having read each of their creeds, purposes, mission statements, etc. I have decided that either one of these organizations will be perfect for me.

Each one of their philanthropies effect in one way or the other, so that is not my biggest concerns. Besides the 2 philanthropies that I advocate the most for, I can do on my own, just because I am a part of a GLO (I’m thinking positive here), does not mean that I can’t help as many causes that I would like to!

I completely understand that discretion is the key and some of you may look down on me that I am moving forward with 3 organizations at once, but nothing may come of it or something may come with all of them. I just do not know and will not know until I’ve been contacted by alumna from each organization.

I know that I must sound like a scatterbrain to some of you, but really I am not, I’m just a bundle of contradictions.

As I go through this process, I have to be aware of what I can offer an organization and what I want form that organization.

What I offer is a great passion to see an organization expand and help in their mission statement, creed, motto, etc. A strong sisterhood, to help a collegiate chapter in any way that I can. I want a leadership role, local and then later nationally, like to be a part of the expansion committee, to get this sisterhood in as many places as possible. But really what I think I have to offer is my passion.

What I’m looking for is a great dedication to this amazing sisterhood, to be supportive of each and every member, whether they have 1,000 or 200,000 members, that they are not just a number and a financial payment (I understand that on the surface it’s a business, but its also something greater than that). A great dedication to their chosen charitable cause.

I don’t want to just join an organization just for the letters and the badge. The day after I get initiated I will say to each women in the organization, here I am, I am ready to work any way that you need me, I’m in this for the lifetime commitment that you just spoke about at the service!

Ok this HAS turned into a novel, I’m stopping now :D

I hope I translated my feelings clearly

ms. gwyn

[trojangal]

Ms. Gwyn,

Congratulations on narrowing it down! I had some hard decisions to make as well, and have asked for paperwork from two different groups. Once I look at the paperwork, this will help me further make my decision.


PM me if you want to discuss this further!

Good luck!

[JennRN]

Originally posted by ms_gwyn
Ok hopefully this will be a brief update......

As you know that I have sent off paperwork for both Polyhymnia. I also have paperwork for Euterpe, but I would like to actually speak with someone at National in order to get some clarifications on some points before I send out that paperwork. Let me reiterate that this paperwork is for introductionary purposes only.

Then suddenly after some long hard honesty with myself and some tears, I decided to contact Terpsicore. And I have been invited to a meeting with them sometime in December.


Like I have stated in all my messages, I do know what I want from these organizations and having read each of their creeds, purposes, mission statements, etc. I have decided that either one of these organizations will be perfect for me.

Each one of their philanthropies effect in one way or the other, so that is not my biggest concerns. Besides the 2 philanthropies that I advocate the most for, I can do on my own, just because I am a part of a GLO (I’m thinking positive here), does not mean that I can’t help as many causes that I would like to!

I completely understand that discretion is the key and some of you may look down on me that I am moving forward with 3 organizations at once, but nothing may come of it or something may come with all of them. I just do not know and will not know until I’ve been contacted by alumna from each organization.

I know that I must sound like a scatterbrain to some of you, but really I am not, I’m just a bundle of contradictions.

As I go through this process, I have to be aware of what I can offer an organization and what I want form that organization.

What I offer is a great passion to see an organization expand and help in their mission statement, creed, motto, etc. A strong sisterhood, to help a collegiate chapter in any way that I can. I want a leadership role, local and then later nationally, like to be a part of the expansion committee, to get this sisterhood in as many places as possible. But really what I think I have to offer is my passion.

What I’m looking for is a great dedication to this amazing sisterhood, to be supportive of each and every member, whether they have 1,000 or 200,000 members, that they are not just a number and a financial payment (I understand that on the surface it’s a business, but its also something greater than that). A great dedication to their chosen charitable cause.

I don’t want to just join an organization just for the letters and the badge. The day after I get initiated I will say to each women in the organization, here I am, I am ready to work any way that you need me, I’m in this for the lifetime commitment that you just spoke about at the service!

Ok this HAS turned into a novel, I’m stopping now :D

I hope I translated my feelings clearly

ms. gwyn

What a wonderful post!! {{Hugs}} to you while going through this process.

[ms_gwyn]

Well I just got back from my luncheon/meeting with Terpsicore and all the ladies in attendence really seemed open, glad and positive that I attended and expressed a great interest in their organization. We brought gifts for a house for abused women and children, luchen and a meeting. We spent some time for introductions and backgrounds and how they had come to the alumna chapter and the chapter of initiation. Looking at these women and the convention pictures have solidified my decision persue them, the one draw back is that it is a group of mostly older women. With Polyhymnia, I have yet to hear anything from them so, we will see if anything come from it. With Euterpe, I kept calling the Alumna Service Rep, but could not actually speak with someone and leaving messages that were not returned also turned me off a bit. I felt like I was hitting a brick wall. They are such an amazing group and all the women on this board who belong to that group are just so amazing, but in the end I just felt that is was not there.

I have been invited to a meeting in Feb with Terpiscore so things are positive and they have already mentioned that they would have to contact National in regards to my situation and the next steps in the process.

Since that is almost the same thing happen with Urania I am not going to proclaim anything and say that I am in, you never know.

I will be giving updates as soon as they happen.

ciao
ms. gwyn

[ms_gwyn]

Well for those who have been keeping up with my journey, I just got a message tonigh Terpsicore has requested paperwork for me from National. Since I do know this is where I belong (I have been in denial on this). I am no longer persuing Polyhymnia, a great group of women and one of the dream organizations. But I have found my home and its with Terpsicore.

I know things will work out with Terpsicore, these ladies just seem so happy that I am a part of them and excited at the prospect and the great feedback. If by some chance this falls through I will stop my pursuit for a bit, but that is not going to happen.
:D

[KSUViolet06]

Originally posted by ms_gwyn
Well for those who have been keeping up with my journey, I just got a message tonigh Terpsicore has requested paperwork for me from National. Since I do know this is where I belong (I have been in denial on this). I am no longer persuing Polyhymnia, a great group of women and one of the dream organizations. But I have found my home and its with Terpsicore.

I know things will work out with Terpsicore, these ladies just seem so happy that I am a part of them and excited at the prospect and the great feedback. If by some chance this falls through I will stop my pursuit for a bit, but that is not going to happen.
:D

Best of luck, given the nature of AI, anything can happen though. It seems like it's going well.

[Jill1228]

Keep us posted! Looks like you might be on your way, hon! Keeping fingers crossed

[AOIIsilver]

Happiness!
Silver

[navane]

Alright Lorri!!!!! It sounds like you've had a breakthrough moment! I'm really hoping for the best for you. I know how hard you've been working for this - I'm looking forward to your happy ending!


.....Kelly :)

[trojangal]

Hooray!! So glad to see that you will be doing your paperwork now! Will be sending good thoughts and wishes your way!

:D :D :D

[ms_gwyn]

Well another update for you guys to think on......

I think I am pretty much in, I've taken on the responsibility of designing the new alumnae chapter website and will be participating in the founder's day celebration (includes non-initiated members).

I am paying local alumna dues (not national, yet)

the only thing that I don't have is an initiation date and that probably will not happen for a while...we are talking Fall (at this point) and I have two options open for me during that time line.

But until I have an initiation date, I will not reveal the group, but some of you ladies know which group, please don't say anything, I really want to shout it from the rooftops when I have that date in hand.

:D

gwyn

[Jill1228]

DOH! You are killing me sistah girlfriend! http://www.my-smileys.de/smileys2/00000028annie.gif

I understand the discretion and caution...TRUST ME!

Hmmm let me see...
You are paying local dues
You are designing the website

I think they want you and the fat lady is warming up because she is ready to sing...

Just let me know what song you want me to sing! :D

Thangs are looking good for you

[Tom Earp]

JillyBean, go ride a Coaster or sit on a Bag of Ice!:D

Fall, to have to wait that long!:( I want to wet My Pants, well at least go to the loo!

[Jill1228]

I prefer the roller coaster thanks! I don't like cold :)

Originally posted by Tom Earp
JillyBean, go ride a Coaster or sit on a Bag of Ice!:D

Fall, to have to wait that long!:( I want to wet My Pants, well at least go to the loo!

[navane]

Wooo woooooo!!!! Alright!!!!!!!! :D :D :D I can't wait to hear the good news!


.....Kelly :)

[trojangal]

Glad to hear things are going well...

Can't wait to hear about the big news!


:D :D :D

[blueangel]

YEAH!!!!! I'm so happy for you!

I can't wait to hear where your new home is!

[Sister Havana]

Woohoo! Great news! :D

Can't wait to hear who the lucky group is!

[LouisaMay]

How exciting!!!! I can't wait to hear :)

[bsp-mich24]

Great news - can't wait til you post who your new sisters are.:)

[ms_gwyn]

no big updates because I had to miss this wonderful meeting on Saturday due to some issues and I also will have to miss the May meeting b/c of a pre-planned trip to SF:(

But the good news is, I asked about the status of my paperwork and it has been requested.

So either it will be mailed to me or I will be given the paperwork at the June meeting, which I will make sure that I attend.

[Jill1228]

Woo hoo!

So I can wait till June to bust out the vice grips and bamboo shoots under the nails? :D

[SFHopefull!]

,,,,

[ms_gwyn]

not much of an update because the June meeting was changed from this weekend to next weekend and will be the last one until the Fall.

I found out that Alumna director for my region is in the same chapter that I pledged in college and she remembers me! That is a nice connection there.

I am still waiting on paperwork, hopefully I will get some next weekend. I am still working on the website, man I used to love designing websites, but since I have stopped almost 3 years ago, it is very hard to get back into the groove! but I am moving along nicely.

As for the group, I really will not mention who it is, just in case (hey, until dues are paid and I have a date in hand!) something awful happens, but it does not look that way at all.

When these things happen, I will have a guessing thread...I like those! Being realistic, I don't think that will happen until the Fall.

Good thing I am a patient person or I'd be pulling my hair out!

[trojangal]

Patience does come to those who wait.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed and waiting with you!

[Jill1228]

Of course I am like G-d gimme patience and I want it
NOW!

Hang in there girl!

[starryeyed]

Congrats to you! You've been patient so long already-I bet this is torture!

[blueangel]

If you're getting paperwork, then it looks like you're in. But, I don't blame you for being cautious. You're doing the smart thing.

I think a lot of people underestimate how difficult the AI process can be. You've waiting a long time, so once you get your initiation date, you'll be very relieved.

Don't get discouraged if you don't hear anything this summer. That's normal. I bet things will get hopping for you really fast in the fall.

I'm excited for you! :D

[lake]

Thanks for the update Ms Gwyn! I have been thinking of you and had been meaning to PM you to find out how things are going. It is MOST DEFINITELY your turn to join the "Class of 2005" (as blueangel calls us!).

I'm still keeping my fingers crossed for you! :)

[navane]

Originally posted by ms_gwyn
I found out that Alumna director for my region is in the same chapter that I pledged in college and she remembers me! That is a nice connection there.


Ahhh...ok.....I won't be participating in the guessing thread then. ;) :cool:

But yeah....that is way cool!!! I am so happy for you!!!!!

.....Kelly :)

[ms_gwyn]

Kellly......


you are funny....until I have a date in hand....SAY NOTHING!

I think I said that I did go "back home" in one of my post?

Again I have no date so I don't want to count my chickens, but for the people who know....SAY NOTHING!

;) :D

[Jill1228]

Sigh....I guess my torture implements have to stay in storage for a while longer, huh? ;)

[navane]

Originally posted by ms_gwyn
Kellly......


you are funny....until I have a date in hand....SAY NOTHING!

I think I said that I did go "back home" in one of my post?

Again I have no date so I don't want to count my chickens, but for the people who know....SAY NOTHING!

;) :D


Of course I'm not going to say anything!! LOL If you did say, "back home" I must have missed it. Though, it was easy for me to "read inbetween the lines" even without that last comment. No worries though.....I really want this for you! I am looking forward to a positive result!

.....Kelly :)

[Tippiechick]

Good luck! I hope you'll let us know as soon as you hear something.

[lake]

I won't say anything either, even though I'm not sure 100 percent who it is, I do have a general idea.

But like I said before, it's definitely your turn now!!

[Tom Earp]

Steady Jill. You need to ride a Coaster for some grins and relax!:D

My Badge is the Nicest, no, your Badge is nicest.

Well, from ariesrising site, I have yet to find an ugly Badge.:cool:

navan, I really like your GPhiB Badge, it is classy!

Coloration can be a very deciding factor in Badges.

Some Blinging can really lose the true Badge.

I should know, I have 56 of LXA Badges in all kinds of stones and color configerations.

Some just do stand out more than others.

Hell, as I said, all Badges are special!!!!!!!!!!!

[AOIIsilver]

Originally posted by blueangel
I think a lot of people underestimate how difficult the AI process can be. You've waiting a long time, so once you get your initiation date, you'll be very relieved.
Co-sign..I think PNAM's are more relieved after intiation!
Silver

[Tom Earp]

It is funny how some look down there noses at AIing.

But going to college and rushing is usually one Semester, maybe two.

But, AIing is a period of time that can seem to last forever.

But as has been seen on GC AI, there are many wonderful people who have attained Memberships and are some of the most hard working people just for the fact that they did work, sweat, and wait for something to happen.

Never give up hope, as Adults with many things going on in our/thier lives it takes longer but seems to be worth it in the final ending of the process. :cool:

[starryeyed]

Originally posted by Tom Earp
It is funny how some look down there noses at AIing.

But going to college and rushing is usually one Semester, maybe two.

But, AIing is a period of time that can seem to last forever.

But as has been seen on GC AI, there are many wonderful people who have attained Memberships and are some of the most hard working people just for the fact that they did work, sweat, and wait for something to happen.

Never give up hope, as Adults with many things going on in our/thier lives it takes longer but seems to be worth it in the final ending of the process. :cool:

How insightful & sweet!

[lake]

I agree - very insightful and sweet!

I am also relieved that the AI process is over for me. It's definitely not as cut and dried as "regular" recruitment is. And my membership is so meaningful to me because I worked so hard to get it (five years!). It's not something I consider a "means to an end" or a stepping stone to something else later on...the AI process represented that to me!!

[SFHopefull!]

,,,,

[ms_gwyn]

Thank you SF Hopefully


but I was this close before with another group, I had a potential date, etc, but I needed a "sign off" and that fell through very quicly and all avenues that lead to that group, were cut off instantly.

So until paperwork is signed, inter/national dues are paid (check is cashed), badge order is placed, I really will not be revealing anything, nor getting to excited.

Make no mistake, this group is in my heart and has been for quiet a while, I would be devastated if everything fell apart. I have a good friend who is pushing her group (if things fall through, but that really isn't in my mind and would be a while before I would even entertain the idea) they are a dream org for me.

But hey I am very positive about this experience and I KNOW in my heart that it will happen (please, let it happen).

I do have doubts now and again.

I told you guys in the beginning I am a brutally honest person...

gwyn

[SFHopefull!]

,,,,

[trojangal]

Originally posted by ms_gwyn
I have a good friend who is pushing her group (if things fall through, but that really isn't in my mind and would be a while before I would even entertain the idea) they are a dream org for me.

I do have doubts now and again.

I told you guys in the beginning I am a brutally honest person...

gwyn

I can relate to this. There were times that I was doubting where I was supposed to go, and I seemed anxious. It was so great to get my letter when it happened.

[lake]

I can relate with trojangal about being anxious, even when I knew where I wanted to be! AI is just an all-around, anxiety provoking experience.

[ms_gwyn]

Well ladies

it has become a waiting game.....

I just got back from AC group meeting and it was wonderful, had to drive a ways, but that is no matter.

I got a status update on my application (apparently, I don't need to fill any paperwork out at this stage). The president of the AC sent in my forms to the Alumnae Coordinator for our Region, she put her signature of approval and sent it to National and it has entered the "blackhole" that can sometimes happen at any NHQ. The President did call the Director of Alumnae Services to see if they received the paperwork, but has yet to hear back. At this point I do not know what the steps are (meaning, do I need approval from the EC or if the Director sees the approval and then sends me paperwork to fill out)

The next meeting will not be held for a few months, so I have to sit on pins and needles til then (unless, I get "approved" between now and then and everything else happens).

You know I got some pictures from some of the members, since I am still working on the site (long story) and to seel that history and the old programs from Convention and some the great ladies of this organization, I am just in awe.

I tell you, I have found home and I have made the right decision, my journey is over (almost), I can see the finish line....but I am not excited (if I get excited, this will fall through as with all things that I get excited about.)

If I hear anything, you guys will be the first to know.

gwyn

NOTE: I am using these titles for general purposes only and not trying to leave clues for my group

[navane]

That's ok! Keep going for it! It may seem like a tough wait, but we're all with you on this one!


.....Kelly :)

[starryeyed]

I wish you luck, and am so glad to hear that you are sure this org is your home! Great news & I hope you find out soon!

[trojangal]

I'm so glad that everything went well this past weekend! It sounds like you had a blast. I can tell you that when you actually get to sit down with sisters and talk about that group, it becomes so much clearer and meaningful.

As you're waiting...remember this "famous" line from a Warner Brothers cartoon...
"Patience is a virtue, it often brings good luck.
It's seldom found in humans, and never in a duck."
--Bugs Bunny

Stay busy, and just wait until they contact you again! Good luck with the website!

[ms_gwyn]

:D

[Jill1228]

Oh HELL NO! Spill it sista girlfriend...DON'T MAKE ME COME DOWN THERE! :D

(getting torture items ready)...

Originally posted by ms_gwyn
:D

[Taualumna]

Originally posted by Jill1228
Oh HELL NO! Spill it sista girlfriend...DON'T MAKE ME COME DOWN THERE! :D

(getting torture items ready)...


LOLOLOL...do you need any help??!!! ;)

[trojangal]

Are we rounding out the class of 2005?

I certainly hope this is good news!!

Check your pm box!!!

:)

[ms_gwyn]

ok..ok...ok...

I will end some of the torture...

I had 1st degree conferred on me today at the AC meeting (meaning, pledge ceremony and I have already taken the national test).....

so now the real waiting begins.....

:D

[Jill1228]

Ya gonna give us some clues or do we have to beat it outta ya? :D

Taualumna, ya got my back right???

[trojangal]

<handing Jill knife to sharpen bamboo points>

If she doens't tell us, I want to be the one to pull out her toenails!!


So...when are you going to start the guessing thread?

[Taualumna]

Originally posted by Jill1228
Ya gonna give us some clues or do we have to beat it outta ya? :D

Taualumna, ya got my back right???

Hands Jill ropes, just in case :)

[Sistermadly]

If "degree" is a clue, then I think I know which organization it is.

[OTW]

Originally posted by Sistermadly
If "degree" is a clue, then I think I know which organization it is.

Are they the only organization to use that term as far as membership goes? Or are there others that use it too?

[lake]

I'm pretty sure it's one of the Syracuse Triad.

Edited to add: "Congratulations!" :D

[Leslie Anne]

Originally posted by OTW
Are they the only organization to use that term as far as membership goes? Or are there others that use it too?

More than one group uses degrees.

[ms_gwyn]

As some of you know, in reading this thread and others that I've posted in...I went to Arizona State University...

The following are all the badges at ASU in 1991 when I rushed, I know perfectly well that automatically that some are elimanated (I don't need to be told), just indulge me, there is a method to my madness...

Besides, I love each and every NPC (and NPHC) badge out there.....

this is part one since, GC wont let me post all the pictures in one post....

http://www.creationofself.com/axo.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/adp.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/agd.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/ap.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/co.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/ddd.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/dg.jpg

[ms_gwyn]

this is part two since, GC wont let me post all the pictures in one post....
http://www.creationofself.com/gpb.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/kat.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/kkg.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/pbp.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/sdt.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/sk.jpg

http://www.creationofself.com/sss.jpg


There is no rhyme nor reason to the placing of these badges its just in alpha order....

[UofISigKap]

I love the badges! You really captured some gorgeous ones.

Congratulations!! :D

[Xylochick216]

I know Alpha Chi uses first degree when you are pinned.... Not sure who else does, though.

[honeychile]

Originally posted by Leslie Anne
More than one group uses degrees.
Of the ones that I know a little something about their ritual, everyone has different degrees!

[Sistermadly]

Originally posted by lake
I'm pretty sure it's one of the Syracuse Triad.


If it is, I'll be surprised since none of the Triad uses the term "degree" (to my knowledge). But it might be a red herring intended to throw us all off the trail. ;)

[tunatartare]

Can we start guessing yet? My guess is for Sigma Sigma Sigma.

[KSUViolet06]

I'm going to also go with Sigma Sigma Sigma. We use degrees and have a membership exam.

[Sistermadly]

I'm going to go out on a limb and say Tri Sigma is my guess as well. And I almost *never* guess in these threads! :D

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

Originally posted by Sistermadly
If it is, I'll be surprised since none of the Triad uses the term "degree" (to my knowledge). But it might be a red herring intended to throw us all off the trail. ;)

Yah, we sure don't.

[blueangel]

I know a secret, and I'm not telling! :D

Congrat's Ms. Gwyn! You've worked long and hard for this-- and nobody deserves to be an AI member of this very special group more than you. Congrat's! It won't be long now!

[OTW]

Originally posted by SmartBlondeGPhB
Yah, we sure don't.

Throw AGD into the Triad that doesn't use "degree"!

[trojangal]

:rolleyes:

whistling and looking around the room

Nanana..I know something you don't know..pbbttt! I knew it before you.

Ms_Gwyn, I am so happy to see things have worked out with your group. You have earned this honor, and I know that your initiation will be a special day for you.

Lots of love from the NAM Class of 2005!

[tinydancer]

You know you are driving us crazy! But it's all good, since we know that your home is in sight! Good for you!:)

[copacabana]

Ooh I want to know!!! Who is it?!?!?

Either way, Congrats! AI sounds like a process that requires a heck of a lot of patience.

[ms_gwyn]

I am not very good at this......

2) 3 Greek Letters

3) Spring

[Jen]

I will guess:

Sigma Sigma Sigma

[Sister Havana]

Ooooh....good news on the horizon!

Can't wait to hear the full story! :D

[KSUViolet06]

Originally posted by ms_gwyn
I am not very good at this......

3) Spring


We were founded in April. :)

[ms_gwyn]

4) The badge is a shape/symbol

[Xylochick216]

I'm thinking it's Sigma. They have the triangle...

[polarpi]

I'll guess Sigma Sigma Sigma, since many more knowledgeable than I have already put their guess in for them as well (and I don't know much about Sigma Sigma Sigma and their new member process).

ADPi is another one I'd like to guess for - we have a membership exam (I'm not sure if AIs do, but it's part of the new member education process for the organization), we were founded in Spring (May), we're a three letter organization :D, and our pin is a shape/symbol (diamond is a shape, right ;))...the only thing throwing me off is the "degree" mention.

Either way, I can't wait to hear your happy news, ms_gwyn! :)

[Jill1228]

I will throw my hat in and guess Sigma Sigma Sigma too

[ms_gwyn]

you know....there really is no point in this..:D

am I that transparent?

anyway....I think if I had actually narrowed it down to the chapters that are no longer at ASU and if you guys have read my various threads....it would have been a no brainer....


No big surprise...I am now (yet again) a new member of the wonderful sisterhood of



















Sigma Sigma Sigma

I do not have a date for initiation, but again, I am paying local dues and coninuing to work on the website....

[polarpi]

Congrats, ms_gwyn! (Obviously I didn't read all your messages very closely ;))

Here's to your upcoming initiation into Sigma Sigma Sigma! :)

[copacabana]

hey congrats! that's so exciting:D

[JennRN]

Congratulations! That is awesome! :D :D

[wrigley]

Congratulations on finding your home!!!:)

[Leslie Anne]

Congratulations!!!!!!!

I'm so excited for you. It's been a long time coming!

[tunatartare]

Congratulations!!! I know you've waited a long time for this. :)

[adpiucf]

All the best to you! How exciting!

[Sister Havana]

Wooo! Congrats to you and Sigma Sigma Sigma. :)

[twhrider13]

Congratulations! Let us know about your initiation date when you find out when it is so we can congratulate you again, LOL!

[Sistermadly]

Congratulations! One of my best friends was initiated into Tri Sigma last fall and she's very happy with her sisters. All the best to you. :)

[Xylochick216]

Congrats to you and Sigma Sigma Sigma :D How exciting!

[pinkyphimu]

how exciting for you!!! i know you definately have waited a long time for this. let us know when you will be official!!

[honeychile]

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

[Taualumna]

Congrats to you and Tri-Sigma! :)

[iastategal]

Congratulations to you and Sigma Sigma Sigma!

Welcome to the NAM Class of 2005!!!:D :D :D

[tinydancer]

Congratulations to you and Sigma Sigma Sigma! I'm so proud of you for sticking with it . It's truly worth it in the end, isn't it?:)

[KSUViolet06]

I knew the secret ALL ALONG and didn't breathe a WORD. :D

[bsp-mich24]

Congrats on Tri Sigma!:)

[Jill1228]

Woo hoo! Congrats to you and
SIGMA SIGMA SIGMA

[sailboatgirl]

I never post in these AI threads, but I can't resist! :D

Congratulations and welcome to


SIGMA SIGMA SIGMA

[emleepc]

YAY!!!

[AUDeltaGam]

Congratulations on Sigma Sigma Sigma!!

[Tom Earp]

HEY HEY, Congratulations on Your soon to be upcoming Initiation in to SIGMA SIGMA SIGMA!

[navane]

Woo hoo!!!! :) :D :cool:

Congratulations on Sigma Sigma Sigma!


I know you've had Tri Sigma in your heart for such a long time and I am soooo glad that you are finally home!! I've enjoyed meeting you at the GC meet and I can't wait 'til our next meet when you can proudly show off your badge!


.....Kelly :)

[FloridaTish]

Congrats to both you and Sigma Sigma Sigma! I am very happy to see another successful AI story!

[Jill1228]

Hmmm I was going to check out badges to see if you can bling out your badge! :)

[Honeykiss1974]

Congrats! :)

[betasigrose]

Congrats to you and Sigma Sigma Sigma!!!!

[jhujenn]

Congrats! It's great things are moving forward for you.

[ms_gwyn]

Well after almost 2 years of being a pledge of Sigma Sigma Sigma

I am now a proud member of the Iota Alpha chapter of Sigma Sigma Sigma.

My ceremony was today and it was beautiful and heart stopping and I almost cried several times, but I kept it in.

To have those women in the AC surround me was the most special part of the ceremony. These are the women, from day one way back in December 04, who immediately accepted me as their sister and now I am an official sister.

I already talked to the National Officer who presided over the ceremony and yea...I'm contacting them on Monday about volunteer opportunities....just like I said I would.

I have a feeling that the people in Woodstock, VA will become very familiar with my name. :D

[NutBrnHair]

I am not a proud member of the Iota Alpha chapter of Sigma Sigma Sigma.

Hurry and EDIT! :)

Congrats to you! Enjoy every minute.

[mystikchick]

Yes, what NutBrnHair said! Congratulations on your initiation :D

[LPIDelta]

How wonderful for you!!! Tri-Sigma is lucky to have you.

[Still BLUTANG]

CONGRATS!!!!! :)

[Leslie Anne]

YAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As the saying goes,

It's not what you become, but what you've always been.


I was thinking about you all day today! I kept wondering, "is it happening now?" "how about now?"

I wanted to call you so badly but I didn't want to interrupt any post-initiation celebrating. A million hugs for you Sweetie! You did it. You made your way back home! I'm so happy for you.

Has it sunk in?
You are now and forever a Sigma Sigma Sigma!

They are so lucky to have you! (((((Gwyn))))) :)



Love ya (my Farmville Four Sister)!

Leslie :)

[wrigley]

Congratulations!!!:)

[Sister Havana]

YAAAAAAAY! Congratulations to you!

[KSUViolet06]

Welcome to Sigma Gwyn!

I'm glad you were finally able to experience Triangle Degree, it's beautiful!

[navane]

YES!!!!!!!!!!

Congratulations on your initiation into Sigma Sigma Sigma!

I am so glad for you! *hugs!*

I have a feeling that the people in Woodstock, VA will become very familiar with my name.

That's the spirit!!!

We need to have another SoCal GC gathering 'cause, girl, I wanna see you with that badge!! :D

.....Kelly :)

[Jill1228]

Congrats to you and SIGMA SIGMA SIGMA! It's been a long time coming

[trojangal]

Hooray!!!

Congratulations to you and Sigma Sigma Sigma.

I am so happy for you on your special day...and I am glad that you are finally home.

Love ya!
Trojangal( so glad to have another Farmville Four sis!!)

[iastategal]

Congratulations to you and on your intiation into Sigma Sigma Sigma!! :D:D:D

[Scandia]

Yippee!!! Congratulations!!!

The journey was worth it.

I really like your codenames, btw.

[Jimmy Choo]

Congrats to you!!!! You have waited a long time and I'm so glad you are finally all the way home!!! :)

[BuckeyeTriDelta]

Congrats!!!:D:D

[pinkyphimu]

Hurray!!! I am so glad that you finally made it to initiation! I am glad to hear it was worth the wait!

[lake]

Congrats!! I'm so happy for you and Sigma Sigma Sigma. Welcome to the Greek world! :D

[sailboatgirl]

CONGRATULATIONS! Welcome (officially) to our sisterhood!:D

[cutie_cat_4ever]

Congrats!! :D

[LouisaMay]

Wow! I just saw your news. Congratulations! The long wait makes it all the sweeter.

LM

[AOII Angel]

Wow...it's been nearly 4 years since you started this thread. Congratulations! I am so glad all of your hard work paid off. Welcome to the Panhellenic world!

[baci]

I can't believe I never read this thread. It was so touching! I truly loved every single post. Congratulations.:)