My AI search!!

[JennRN]

Hey everyone! After reading the other stories about alumni initiation, I decided to start my own! I didn't get to rush in college-after my first semester I had to come home, due to financial problems, and went to community college. I have a couple of family members who went Greek, as well as my fiance and his whole family! I always regretted not being able to experience this, so I decided to try now! I contacted 2 groups:

Group 1 responded, and have told me to get in touch with the alumni chapter in my area (the only problem is, I can't find the phone number or website!!)

Group 2 has not replied yet (maybe they are busy over the summer?)

I don't know if I should contact any others? Any help would be greatly appreciated!!

[texas*princess]

Best of luck to you Jenn! Please keep us updated! I hope you find the home of your dreams!!! :)

This is so exciting! There are so many PNAM's here!!! :D

[CutiePie2000]

Originally posted by JennRN
I contacted 2 groups:
Group 1 responded, and have told me to get in touch with the alumni chapter in my area (the only problem is, I can't find the phone number or website!!)
If you don't have the phone no. or website of your local alumnae chapter, this may not be "publicly available". You may wish to ask the HQ for it. If the HQ will not give it to you, this may be their of discouraging "strangers" from appoaching alumnae chapters and and proposing themselves as a prospective candidate for alumnae initiation. But I would still ask and see if you can get the contact no. for the local alumnae chapter. Ultimately, it is the local alumnae chapter who will decide whether they wish to have you for a sister or not.

Group 2 has not replied yet (maybe they are busy over the summer?)
Hmmmm...give them a few weeks and follow up again.

I don't know if I should contact any others? Any help would be greatly appreciated!!
I would wait and see what happens with 1 & 2 first. Also, besides contacting ones that "speak" to you, I would look into who has alumnae chapters in your area. You may absolutely love XYZ sorority, but if their nearest alumnae chapter is 150 miles away from you, this may be difficult to participate in from a logistics standpoint.

You didn't specify which groups you were interested in (and I understand your wanting to be discreet). If you had any further questions, feel free to PM me. :)

I also added you onto the "Roll Call" thread (http://forums.greekchat.com/gcforums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=26873)

[Kristin UTD*AGD]

You mentioned that you have a lot of family with ties to GLOs. Maybe they would be able to assist you with access to alumna club information.

[tinydancer]

Yea!! I'm happy to welcome another PNAM. Good luck with your search. There are many wonderful people here who will help you.

Lizz (PNAM tinydancer)

[JennRN]

Thanks for the advice everyone!! And CutiePie, thanks for adding me to the list-I feel so special!!:D

Anyways, this may be a silly question, but how do I find the alumnae chapters in my area? Do I go to each org's website and check? Or is there another way?

[Jill1228]

Welcome Jenn!
Good luck hon! Keep us posted

[MTSUGURL]

I love all of our GC alum, and you PNAMs are just awesome! But do you know how much it kills us to wait SO LONG to find out where you end up?!?! You guys only have to wait a couple weeks to find out about us PNM's homes when we start rush threads. ;)

I'm kidding. It does drive us batty trying to figure out the groups, but I know the waiting is hellish for ya'll! Good luck, and I hope you find your way home!!!!

[CutiePie2000]

Originally posted by JennRN [/B]
Thanks for the advice everyone!! And CutiePie, thanks for adding me to the list-I feel so special!!:D
I was happy to do it! You're welcome! :D

Anyways, this may be a silly question, but how do I find the alumnae chapters in my area? Do I go to each org's website and check? Or is there another way?
I would go onto the sorority's HQ website. There should be links from there. In many cases, it might say that there is an alumnae chapter in (for example) Cleveland, Ohio but there might not be a website or contact information posted. This is likely for security, (anyone can go on the Internet and potentially view this) so many sororities are no longer publicly posting the names and email addresses of the alumnae chapters and stuff like that (or it may be password protected & available to initiated members only, so you would need to type in your Membership No#., etc.). You may need to contact HQ and explain that you would like to contact the alumnae chapter in your city, etc.

Originally posted by Kristin UTD*AGD
You mentioned that you have a lot of family with ties to GLOs. Maybe they would be able to assist you with access to alumna club information.
An excellent point..I would try to avail yourself of whatever potential "Greek networking opportunities" that you have.

[Tom Earp]

Damn, I am Glad to be a CO-MOD on this Thread!!!

Why would one ask, DAH, it is so great to see PNM,s ,On looking to join!!

I want to thank all of the people and members who are doing such a Fantastic Job!!

Damn, I almost wish I was a PNM!! Well, Almost:D

Goodest Luck to each and everyone of you!

Be it known, You will find Help Here!!!!!!!:) :D :cool:

I am the oldest and biggest cheer leader on site!:D

[bsp-mich24]

Jenn,

Good luck with your AI quest.:D

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

Originally posted by CutiePie2000

[b]Anyways, this may be a silly question, but how do I find the alumnae chapters in my area? Do I go to each org's website and check? Or is there another way?
I would go onto the sorority's HQ website. There should be links from there. In many cases, it might say that there is an alumnae chapter in (for example) Cleveland, Ohio but there might not be a website or contact information posted. This is likely for security, (anyone can go on the Internet and potentially view this) so many sororities are no longer publicly posting the names and email addresses of the alumnae chapters and stuff like that (or it may be password protected & available to initiated members only, so you would need to type in your Membership No#., etc.).

Or it might just be that they don't have a website.:) As is the case for a number of our chapters and IH doesn't post the contact info for the reasons you mentioned.

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

If any PNAM's need alumnae contact info for us, feel free to contact me.

[phisigduchesscv]

Good luck. Can't wait to read the updates.

Carolyn

[APhiAngel]

I love reading these stories!!!! Good luck with your search. be sure to give us updates. :)

[ZTAMiami]

Good Luck!

This is almost as fun as the recruitment threads!:D

[JennRN]

Thanks so much to everyone for the kind words and support!! You guys are awesome!

I know someone said to turn to family with Greek ties, and here's the situation with that:

Cousin is in a GLO that doesn't do alumnae initiations.
Fiance's mom is a member of Group 2 that I contacted-she is so nice, and I know she would help me.
Fiance's sister in law is a member of a GLO that does AI, but I don't know her that well, we don't ever really talk, and I would feel kind of awkward asking her about it.

One of the girls who is going to be a bridesmaid in my wedding is a member of Group 1, and I know she'll help me.

So far, I'm going to email Group 2 again next week, if I don't here from them this week. I've emailed Group 1 to get the alum chapter in my area info. I'll keep you guys posted!!

[CutiePie2000]

From what you describe above, JennRN, Group 1 and 2 sound promising. If you wanted any advice or insights, feel free to PM me.

[Tom Earp]

JennRN,

I am sure that you can see by the support on GC from ALL Members of All Soros. that No Matter which Greek Ogr. YOU may A I with, The Important Thing is that you do if you so desire!:)

This is no different than when in College on Recruitment Week, you see many and have to decide on only one!

As you can see, there are many Ladies who support you know matter which Soroity you may have the Privilage and it is to associate with as they are all great!:cool:

You have the support from the Fraternity Men Also!!!!!

Go and good luck!!!

Keep us in the loop!:)

[LPIDelta]

Jenn,
Congrats on your decision to go AI. I am an AI and it is one of the best decisions I made. I hope you find a good home.

I always think it best to look at groups where you know someone already--that helps when making connections. But if it doesn't work out with either of the groups you've contacted, I would also encourage you to use the information here and look at other groups as well. You never know what you may find!

Don't be afraid to pick up the phone either. Call the HQ if you need more information--people are usually more willing to immediately help someone over the phone than through an email.

Best Wishes,
Heather
Delta Phi Epsilon AI

[navane]

Hi Jenn!

I just wanted to say welcome to the PNAM club! :)

Firstly, I was wondering what the "RN" in your username means; are you a Registered Nurse?

Secondly, I also wanted to say "way to go" for deciding to pursue alumna initiation!! That's awesome!

Like Jill, you seem to have some great opportunities in front of you. Though I think it's awesome that both your friend and your fiance's mom appear to be willing to help you, you might want to let each one know about the other. In other words, your friend might try and pull some strings to get you invited to an event while your future mother-in-law is doing the same. If you eventually feel drawn more to future M-I-L's sorority, and your friend didn't know you were working with another group, she may be surprised and hurt. So, just make sure that both your friend and your future M-I-L know that you have interest in more than one group. :) At any rate, sounds good so far!!

If you want to PM me to chat about your PNAM adventures, feel free to do so!

PNAM,

.....Kelly :)

[JennRN]

Ok whats going on so far:

Group 1: I found out that the alum chapter in my immediate area is inactive, but I spoke with their HQ who put me in touch with an alum chapter 15 minutes away, and I emailed the president of that chapter.

Group 2: still no word. I sent another email to their HQ.

And then, on a wild hair, I contacted 2 more groups!! I don't know why, but here's whats going on with them:

Group 3: out of office until tomorrow.

Group 4: the coordinator of alum service emailed me back and explained the process. She then put me in touch with another alum coordinator who can help me if I don't know any member of Group 4(I don't)-sp I emailed her.

Now I'm hoping to meet with someone from the alum chapter of Group 1 soon! And just waiting to hear back from my emails!!

[GeekyPenguin]

Sounds promising, Jenn! :)

[bsp-mich24]

I hope you hear some positive news soon...don't give up all hope give them a week to respond back then if no response email the GLOs of interest again (HQ and alum contact. If posible the contact person for the region you live in).

I contacted the regional person after getting that info from the HQ (new !st choice GLO)...I meet w/ chapter advisor on Friday for lunch....that meeting date took me almost 7 weeks to get -- persistence (sp?)patience has it rewards.:D

Michelle

[LeslieAGD]

Jenn, best of luck! :) Groups 1 and 4 sound very helpful.

[ADPi-Jen]

Anyone looking to become a PNAM for Adpi in the Twin Cities, MN area can PM for info....

Jen

[JennRN]

Hey guys, you have to help me!! Here's the problem:

Group 1's alum chapter president(from my area) emailed me back and sent me a list of events that are going on this summer that I can come to (yay!! so excited!!) She said she looks forward to having me join her chapter (woo hoo!! even more excited!!)-but here's my problem. I keep trying to download the newsletter, but nothing comes up!! I'm seriously computer illiterate, and it's a PDF file (??) -do you download that differently?? When I try to download it right now, all that comes up is a white page with black blocks on it-no words, no nothing. What am I doing wrong??

Also-I'm going to email her back and try to start coming to events ASAP-do I need to meet with her prior? Or do I just like, show up at the events, like, Hi here I am, PNAM!!

Slightly panicked, but otherwise ok....

[Sistermadly]

Congratulations, Jenn!

You probably need the Acrobat reader to view the file. You can download it here: http://www.adobe.com/products/acrobat/readstep2.html

Best of luck to you!

[JennRN]

Ok, crisis averted-thanks to SisterMadly for her advice about Acrobat!! And to GeekyPenguin for offering her help too!

Anyways, I was able to pull up the newsletter, and there are 2 events I can attend:

1) is at a musuem-movie, you can bring picnics and blankets. my questions: what do i wear to this? would this be a good oppourtunity to meet the alums and get to know them if we're watching a movie?

2) is a baseball game, and you can bring spouses/signifigant others. should i bring my fiance-it's not like he'll know anyone there??

[CutiePie2000]

Originally posted by JennRN [/B]
Ok, crisis averted-thanks to SisterMadly for her advice about Acrobat!! And to GeekyPenguin for offering her help too!

Anyways, I was able to pull up the newsletter, and there are 2 events I can attend:

1) is at a musuem-movie, you can bring picnics and blankets. my questions: what do i wear to this? would this be a good oppourtunity to meet the alums and get to know them if we're watching a movie?
How about a summer dress or maybe a cute top and capris?
I guess you can talk to them before the movie or afterwards? Bring something yummy in your basket to share...you can bond with people over food.

2) is a baseball game, and you can bring spouses/signifigant others. should i bring my fiance-it's not like he'll know anyone there??
Hmmm....I would bring the fiance. He can talk to the guys about sports and you'll have a better time probably too. Also, if people know he's your fiance, then you can talk about when your wedding will be, etc.

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

Originally posted by CutiePie2000
2) is a baseball game, and you can bring spouses/signifigant others. should i bring my fiance-it's not like he'll know anyone there??
Hmmm....I would bring the fiance. He can talk to the guys about sports and you'll have a better time probably too. Also, if people know he's your fiance, then you can talk about when your wedding will be, etc.

I would first see if other people are bringing significant others. When we surveyed our chapter about doing "couple" events, they didn't want to. They consider Gamma Phi to be a "just the girls" thing. I would guess, some men are coming, but you might be surprised.

[GPhiBLtColonel]

I would suggest wearing capris to the picnic/blanket thing -- easier to be lady-like!;)
And I would not want to bring fiance -- yet -- let the alums get to know YOU first before your fiance is in the picture

Just my two cents!

[JennRN]

OK, heres an update:

Group 1: I called the alum chapter president and told her that I would like to try and come to the event on June 27th at the museum. Just waiting for her to call me back.

Group 3: Their alum service coordinator gave me the name and email of the alum chapter president in my area. I emailed her and told her that I was interested in learning more about them and possibly participating in some of their summer events.

That's about it! I'm nervous about meeting Group 1-do you guys think I should see if the president and I could like, go to lunch before the event??

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally posted by JennRN
That's about it! I'm nervous about meeting Group 1-do you guys think I should see if the president and I could like, go to lunch before the event??

I think that would be an excellent idea! If if she says no, which I couldn't imagine, at least it would show interest!

I love all this AI stuff...I am going to try SO hard to get my mom to do it next year.

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

I'd agree too on lunch............

[JennRN]

Well, I wrote a long message last night, but it got erased, so now I have to do it again...Grrr....anyways, here goes, and I apologize in advance if it's lengthy!!

Group 1: I talked to the alum chapter pres yesterday, and she is so nice!! She told me alot about the group: appearantly in my area there was one alum group, and then in November, these girls split off from them to form the alum group in Raleigh. All the girls are around my age, either engaged or married-like me! She told me that, unfortunately, alot of people are out of town, so Friday's event might get cancelled-but that there is still the baseball game in July, and also a book club meeting in July, which she invited me to as well. And she encouraged me to bring my fiance to the baseball game-and then offered to carpool with me to both events, so that I'm not wandering in like, who is everyone?? She was really nice, very friendly-and very informative!! She said that if I like all the girls, and vice versa, and I feel like I "fit", then she and I would sit down together and discuss what the sorority is about, the commitment, the bonds, etc-basically stuff I would learn in a pledge period. And if I feel comfortable and ready, then we could proceed with AI!! I am so excited to meet her and the other girls, and start going to their events!!

Group 3-I also talked to the chapter pres yesterday, and she was very nice too! She told me that, since it's summer, most people have crazy schedules and vacations, so they don't have many events-which I would expect. She told me about the group-the age range seems to vary with some girls having just graduated from college, and some people being married with kids. She said that she would keep in touch with me, and let me know when any summer events come up, but said that most of their events are from Sept-May, and then invited me to the September one. So, I look forward to hearing from her, but also am sort of bummed about not being able to get involved now. But like I said, I know it's summer, people go on vacation, and I understand that ut's hard to get people together.

So thats it for now!!

[GeekyPenguin]

That's great news, Jenn! It sounds like things are going well with both groups! :)

[tinydancer]

That's sounding good! I am in the same boat as you are with the group that does not meet in the summer. It is really hard to wait!!

[Jill1228]

Girl, I am feeling your pain too! http://superbabies.homestead.com/files/agree.gif
Going thru the same thing now...folx on summer vacation! G-d gimme patience and I want it NOW! http://superbabies.homestead.com/files/lol3.gif

Originally posted by tinydancer
That's sounding good! I am in the same boat as you are with the group that does not meet in the summer. It is really hard to wait!!

[JennRN]

Hey guys! I know it's been a while, but here's an update:
I have an event tonight!! Woo-hoo!! It's with Group 1, and I am so nervous-and so excited! I've been getting Group 1's emails each week: mostly about the summer events and also about community and health issues. Needless to say I am really excited to meet the girls-there are going to be about 6 girls tonight, and some are bringing signifigant others(the president of the chapter encouraged me to bring my fiance along too, so I am). So, I will definately let you guys know how tonight goes!!

By the way, the Guessing thread cracks me up!! I will say that some of you have made a couple of correct guesses, whether it's about groups contacted, or about groups I'm leaning towards......;)

[pinkyphimu]

jenn have fun at your event!!! i am glad to hear that things are going so well!!

[texas*princess]

Best of luck!!! I hope you have a great time! :)

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

Yeah! It sounds promising.........

[GeekyPenguin]

Have a great time tonight - good luck!

[WhiteDaisy128]

Best of luck Jenn! Have fun!

[navane]

That's awesome, Jenn! I hope you have a great time!


.....Kelly :)

[JennRN]

Hey everyone!! Well, here's how last night went-first of all, it was hot as hell!! And we were outside too!! So, I met the girls and the president gave me a hug and introduced everyone who was there( we were at a baseball game, did I ever say that?). Anyhoo, all the girls there were really nice and very funny, but I felt like I wasn't being social enough, because they had us sitting in 2 rows, and I was in the row below some of the girls, and so from where I was sitting, I only got to talk to about 4 of the girls. I wasn't really sure what to do-like, should I just get up and go sit by them, or talk to the girls who were near me? But it was fun, and they asked all about me, and why I was looking at ABC. The president was actually telling me that she got about 5 phone calls and emails from their nationals saying that they were doing this AI thing wrong, and she shouldn't have talked to me directly, and this was going to need to take months, and there are forms, etc.. I was like, but nationals told me to get in touch with you (totally freaked out that I messed up somewhere), but she said it was ok, and it was nationals mistake in telling me that. She was really nice and when a bunch of the girls and I were talking about the AI process specific to this one group, one of the girls volunteered to be my sponser (yay!!) and another of the girls , who does alot of work with thier nationals, volunteered to write a rec letter for me, when I was ready!!! Woo-Hoo!!

Then they invited me to a couple of events in August, one is a speaker they are having, and the president of their nationals (who lives here in NC) will be there, and they think I should meet her :eek: . The second event is the opening of their sorority house at the college about 5 minutes from my house (but I think I have to work that day!! What to do??).

So, I am really excited about this whole process and getting to know the girls better, b/c they all seem really sweet. And sorry this was so long!! :D

[CutiePie2000]

Hi JennRN,
well, I think it sounds very encouraging. I do subscribe to the philosophy of "not counting the chickens", etc. but I think it does sound very positive! I'll keep my fingers crossed that things keep moving forward in such a definitive manner! Yay!!

[navane]

Wow! It sounds like a success! :)

You must have panicked inside when you heard that the national HQ said you "went about AI wrong"! :eek: I know I would have! :)

hehehe...but good for you!


PNAM,

.....Kelly :)

[GeekyPenguin]

Jenn that sounds super! How great for you! :D

And for the house opening - maybe see if you could stop by on your lunch break if you get one?

[adduncan]

I wouldn't panic at that comment.

AI has been very uncommon until recently, when it hit a growth spurt. Many people do not even know it exists and those who do are often fuzzy on the details.

It's OK--everyone is on a learning curve with this, and no one is going to hold you responsible for what the org is supposed to know or do.

If anything, your AI pursuit is making them clarify what they're looking for and how they go about things. I think that's pretty good too.

Adrienne
:D

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

It sounds great Jenn. And it sounds like you have made a great impression on the local alumnae.

I will say, there were MANY hints in that message for us curious folks. I know for sure now you aren't going Gamma Phi (but I already had an idea on that one).

Now if I only knew who's President lives in NC????????:D

This is better than thinking about the stuff going on in MY life.

[WhiteDaisy128]

Check your PM's Jenn! :D

[tinydancer]

Yea, Jenn!! Sounds like things are on the way for you.

I "think" I may have figured out where you are going, but I'll just keep it to myself for now. When you announce, it, I'll let you know if I was right.;)

[bsp-mich24]

Jenn,

I hope you can make it to both events next month.:) It does sound things are moving along positively. Sending more GOOD vibes your way!:):D

Michelle
PNAM

[pinkyphimu]

jenn- i am glad to hear that things went so well! i hope you have a great time at the other events!!

keeping my fingers crossed

[Tom Earp]

JENN, for a guy, I wish you the best of luck and it sounds so positive!:)

True, AI is somewhat new, it seems to be catching on through out Greekdom! While some may hold to the old ways, it all will come to pass!

You go Lady!!!!!:cool:

[texas*princess]

yay!! continued best wishes to you!

[JennRN]

Just a quick update:
earlier on this week, one of the girls that I met at ABC's event a few weeks ago, emailed me to see if I wanted to get together with her! (This is the same girl who volunteered to be my sponser for AI!!) Last night my fiance and I went out with her and her husband for dinner and drinks-we had so much fun! We got to talking about sorority and fraternity handshakes, and her husband was trying to get her to do hers for him, and she was like, no way would I tell you what it is-and then she said to me, but you'll learn it!!

Anyhoo, we had fun, and I'm still getting a few emails that the alum members also get, and can't wait until the next event!

[Jill1228]

http://geoparent.com/graphics/emoticons/woohoo.gif
Sounds like things went well!

[navane]

Wow, Jenn, it sounds like this potential sponsor of yours can really see you as a member of her organization! That's a great sign!

PNAM,


.....Kelly :)

[GeekyPenguin]

It sounds like things are going great! :D

[bsp-mich24]

Its great to hear that things are picking up a little bit. :)

That was nice of the sister who wants to sponsor your to email and invited you out for conversations and drinks! :D

[JennRN]

For real, thats what I feel like. Let me explain: I have gotten 2 invites to 2 events this week from the alum chapter of Group 1-and each time I've had to email the president back and say, sorry I can't come( both events are on a day when I have a 12 hour shift at the hospital 7A-7P)-she was really cool about both, but I feel bad. Then, I got a call from the pres of the alum chapter of my Group 2 inviting me to their next event. I was really excited because I thought it was tomorrow night, but when I called her back, I realized I had gotten mixed up, and it's Sept 17th-so I also had to tell her I can't come (I'll be on my honeymoon out of the country). Of course she was so sweet and understanding about it, and asked me to call her when I get back in town so I can come to their October event. I know both times, each pres was really understanding and I can't exactly change what I have going on both times,but I feel like I'm being a slacker half-ass PNAM!! I feel disappointed in myself, because usually when I set a goal for myself, I do eveything possible to achieve it-and I hate telling people no. I'm scared that both groups will be like-you came to us and wanted this, and now you never come to any events we invite you to. I usually try to fulfill every commitment in my life-and I am commited to becoming an AI-and I hate that I have to keep turning things down!!

I just had to vent, I'm really disapppointed about having to tell everyone no. I don't want them to think I'm not interested/not serious about this/ not committed enough etc!!!

[navane]

Am I a bad PNAM?



No.


I know you must feel bad about having to turn down two invites to two events with Group #1. But, you're a nurse! You *have* to work those hefty shifts! And really, shouldn't she be giving you a little more advance notice?? If you want to try and make it better, how about you suggest days and times to *her*? How does that sound to you?

As for Group #2 and September 17th...that's your *honeymoon*!! I hardly think that anyone will be mad at you for going to your own honeymoon! :)

I don't see how having valid schedule conflicts makes you a "bad" PNAM. How about this...maybe you can e-mail each of the Presidents and thank them again for their invitations. Tell them how bad you feel about having to miss out. Tell them you are still definitely interested and that you want to try your best to find a date everyone can agree on.

Don't worry Jenn, I'm confident that you'll get it worked out yet! :) :) :)

PNAM hugs,

.....Kelly :)

[bsp-mich24]

Jenn, (I also pm'ed you)

No you are not a "bad PMAN". ;) The alum chapter I'm currently pursuing knows that those of us in the workplace/careers etc have obligations. And ditto to what Kelly said, due to your line of work and the 12 hrs shifts give them your schedule for a 2wk period via email and / or follow up w/ a phone call.:)

Keeping my fingers crossed that you can make it to the next events of group 1 and group 2! Its okay to vent and enjoy your Honeymoon next month. :D :)

[dakareng]

You are defintiely NOT a slacker. I'm a nurse practitioner and do 12s/24s and a crazy combination of days/nights. Does that make me a bad member? No (and I serve at the International level), it doesn't, but it does make me more considerate of others who work non-traditional schedules (i.e., not 9-5, M-F). You'll have a lot to offer and I would emphasize that when you communicate with the AC presidents. YOu have talents to offer but don't have the flexibility to attend things at the last minute (and for me, anything with less than 6 weeks notice IS last minute). Keep communicating with both groups-- it'll work out!

GOOD LUCK

and for those interested-- it isn't Pi Phi... our president lives in Texas.

[Jill1228]

Ok any new news?

[WhiteDaisy128]

Jenn, we haven't had our fix in a while...any news?

[Jill1228]

Any news or are youhttp://www.superbabies.homestead.com/files/mischief.gif

[JennRN]

Hey guys-
I haven't posted in a while because I have been so busy with the wedding, the honeymoon, work, and settling back into real life!!
Anyhoo, I had gotten the fall newsletter for Group 1's events, and have been unable to attend any of them!! Seriously, September's event was the day I got back into the country( obviously couldn't make that one :D ), October's event I was out of town ( incidentally in the wedding of a member of Group 1's sorority-not from the alum chapter, but an old friend), and for the November event, I could go, but I'm working that night at the hospital so I wouldn't get to sleep beforehand( which come 3 am would not be a good thing)! But I have still been in touch with the president and the one girl who volunteered to be my sponser
( her name is Leigh). Leigh and Iwent for drinks one night- the AC pres was supposed to come but couldn't-

and oops, have to run, will finish later!!

[JennRN]

Ok, sorry about that!! I had to take a patient for a quick procedure!!

Anyhoo, the AC pres was supposed to come but couldn't make it. But my husband is going out of town for the next 2 weeks :( , so I've invited both Leigh and the AC pres to my house for some margaritas and Sex and the City! And, I cleared my schedule for the December event, which is making Xmas ornaments, so I can go! Finally!

I'm sort of frustrated that things keep coming up that keep me from meeting more of the members and moving the process along-I feel like I'm at a standstill, but at the same time, I know that this process can take years!!

A funny story here-at the wedding I was in a couple of weeks ago, the bride is a member of Group 1 sorority. At her rehearsal dinner, she had all the bridesmaids come up and do a cake pull-I don't know if you know what that is, but basically there's a cake with charms in it, and ribbons on the charms, and you pick a ribbon and pull! Well, we did it , and the charm I pulled was Group 1's symbol!! I was like, OMG, it's a sign!! :D :p (Ok, I'm being cheesy.)

So thats where things are at right now. Sorry there's not more exciting news for you guys!!

[aopirose]

Cake pulls are a fun tradition. I did that for the girls that I couldn't ask to be my bridesmaids. That way more people could share in the fun. I made sure to get the sterling silver ones so that they could be worn afterwards.

Anyway, with that reference, I think that I know who your group is. Good luck and I can't wait to find out if my guess is correct!

Originally posted by JennRN
At her rehearsal dinner, she had all the bridesmaids come up and do a cake pull-I don't know if you know what that is, but basically there's a cake with charms in it, and ribbons on the charms, and you pick a ribbon and pull! Well, we did it , and the charm I pulled was Group 1's symbol!! I was like, OMG, it's a sign!! :D :p (Ok, I'm being cheesy.)

[SATX*APhi]

I am glad to hear you are still seeking AI! It sounds like you are on the right track to meeting the women of the group. Best of luck!!

[DGMarie]

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[DeltaBetaBaby]

WHY MUST WE DO THIS???

Jenn obviously doesn't want to name the group yet. Let it go. If you think you know the group, keep it to yourself. I don't understand why, in every AI or rush thread, someone feels the need to play detective.

Jenn will tell us when she is ready.

(FWIW, you can get cake-pull charms for every group. It is no shock that the bride had her org's symbol. Therefore, I really think that you can't narrow it down from this "clue.")

[imsohappythatiama]

Originally posted by DGMarie
Here are the cake pulls I have seen the most of...Kappa, KD, DG and ?


Kappa (KKG) doesn't do AI...so if that helps you narrow it down any.... :)

[AGDee]

I just spent two hours surfing the net for charms for the charm bracelet I'm getting my daughter for Christmas and there are charms with EVERYTHING. In fact, I wanted a squirrel charm for me but two sites were sold out of them. Must be a lot of AGDs buying squirrel charms!

Dee

[aopirose]

If JennRN has a problem with my post, she can PM me and I will remove it. Otherwise, I STILL think that I know where she may go. Mmwahahaha :D

[pirepresent]

Just to add... Jenn (and many other PNAMs) might not be so gung-ho about saying names of groups because, as has been discussed before, it's not exactly PC to pursue two groups for AI. So it might not have anything to do with being "ready" or not, and more like "unable at this time"

I dont see anything wrong with people making guesses... it's all in good fun...

[JennRN]

Originally posted by aopirose
If JennRN has a problem with my post, she can PM me and I will remove it. Otherwise, I STILL think that I know where she may go. Mmwahahaha :D

You really got clues from my story about the cake pull?? Wow-I didn't know I had left any! Are cake pulls specific to certain sororities??

You guys guessing doesn't bother me-I don't name the name of the group I am looking at mainly because I don't want to offend anyone/ I may not even wind up there/ I like to keep you in suspense( hahahaha!!! :p ).

[JennRN]

Ok here's an update: Friday night I'm going out for dinner and drinks with the AC president and some other members of the alum group! It's not an official event-I was emailing with the prez and suggested it and she said she would invite some other members as well!! I am so excited for Friday and to meet more of the members!! But now, what to wear!! :D Good thing I'm going to get my hair done tomorrow!! :D

[JennRN]

Ok here's an update: Friday night I'm going out for dinner and drinks with the AC president and some other members of the alum group! It's not an official event-I was emailing with the prez and suggested it and she said she would invite some other members as well!! I am so excited for Friday and to meet more of the members!! But now, what to wear!! :D Good thing I'm going to get my hair done tomorrow!! :D

[tinydancer]

Alrighty then!! Jen, that sounds like a great start for you!

[JennRN]

Well, I just got back from dinner-and it turned out to just be me, the AC pres, and one other girl whom I had never met before( which was nice to meet someone new). The 3 of us had dinner and cocktails, and it was alot of fun! I laughed alot and felt really comfortable. The AC pres talked to me about the December event which I will actually make it to-which is making Xmas ornaments, which should be fun. Anyhoo, I wish more girls had come tonight, but I had fun anyways, and will definately try to keep getting together with the AC pres and any other girls.

So thats it so far!!:)

[Celestia*Shine]

Jenn,
That sounds like a really awesome time! The most important thing is that you had fun and felt comfortable doing it--I guess that's when you know that something is right for you! Making new connections is great!! I'm sure that there will be a better turn out at the Christmas party. Have a good weekend:) Keep us updated!
:)

[Jill1228]

Sounds like dinner went well!

[rainbowbrightCS]

Sounds like every one had a great time. I can't wait to hear more.

Good luck.

Christia

[SATX*APhi]

Sounds like a wonderful time was had by all. Continued best wishes!

[JennRN]

Quick update- Ihave an event with my group this Sunday-we're going to go make Xmas decorations at a place where you can decorate your own art! I think more people will be at this one, and I'm really excited to go! So, I'll let you guys know how that goes on Sunday!! :)

[tinydancer]

Great!! That sounds like a fun activity and a good way to meet people.

[pinkyphimu]

have a great time! that sounds like fun!

[navane]

Cool! That sounds like fun! I hope you have a great time meeting the ladies!


PNAM,

.....Kelly :)

[WhiteDaisy128]

I can't wait to hear all about it Jen!

[JennRN]

Hey guys!! Well, I had my event today, and it was so much fun!! We were at a bead and jewelry making shop, and we basically got these snowflake shaped ornaments and chose whatever color and shape beads we wanted to put on our ornaments-they had so many different colors and shapes, it was crazy!! And I'm not very artistic anyways, so I was like, oh god lord, where do I even start!! :p But it was fun-there were about 8 girls there, some I knew already, and some I just met today. Everyone was really nice, and we just did our ornaments and talked and had fun! We talked about ideas for events next spring, and I think we're going to go to one of those places where you can paint your own pottery! The AC pres gave me an article about AI that she had and told me she would talk to me soon. I think we're going to try and have an informal dinner with whomever we can get together before Christmas! The event lasted about 3 hours, and I really had a great time.

So, things are going well with my group!

[Celestia*Shine]

Hey Jenn

That's EXCELLENT that you had such a nice time! THat's definately a cool activity to do, I wish that there was something like that around here...there might be, I'll have to check it out...hmmm. Anyway! That's great news that you obtained info about your orgs. AI process. Hopefully, Its very informative and can answer some of the questions that you may have had about the process ( since its so different for all groups ). I'm sure that you're excited!! I'm happy for you! Keep us updated!! I always enjoy hearing about other AI's!

[navane]

It sounds like you had a good time! What a fun sounding event! I love those kinds of activities. :)


Even better is that it sounds like you had a great opportunity to meet 'n' greet with other members in a fun setting. Not to mention that the AC President gave you some info on AI! I think it's just so cool that you're using phrases that make use of the word "we". ;) Here's to looking forward to a very productive spring! :)


PNAM,

.....Kelly :)

[rainbowbrightCS]

Sounds like you had a blast. I hope the next exent/get together will be just as great if not better.

Christia

[JennRN]

Here's some news for you guys-nothing big, don't get excited :) . Next Thursday I'm going to an impromptou happy hour with the alum group, which I'm really excited about, because there hasn't been an event since December! So, it will be fun to go and meet more of the girls!

But on another note, I sort of need to vent. I've been reading everyone's threads about their AI journey and it seems like , in comparisson, mine is at a crawl! Don't get me wrong, I am so happy for the others when they finally find their homes!! It just seems like, they're are all doing stuff I'm not-let me explain. I know people have filled out applications, sent in resumes, gotten info packets, etc-and I have done none of that. The possibility of AI with my group has only been mentioned in passing about twice. When I go to events, no one asks me about why I'm doing this, what I like about the org, what attracted me to it, what I could bring to the org-or even the AI process with their org. I don't know how anyone feels about the whole AI process, except for about 2 of the girls. I wonder, should I bring it up in conversation? Should I wait for someone else to say something about it? I just don't know. And then I keep reading about everyone getting initiated in the spring '04 class, and I get really discouraged. Like maybe I should look for a home elsewhere. But the thing is, I don't want to go elsewhere! I really like this group-and the girls I've met so far. And please don't think I'm trying to speak badly about them, I'm just discouraged and venting. But I know this can be a long process too.

Anyhoo, I'm sorry this is so long and disparing!!

[jhujenn]

Jenn,

My personal thought is that if you really like the group and the women stick with it. If it makes you feel any better I have only been to one activity and then the group told me they weren't interested in sponsoring me for AI. Keep your chin up. I completely understand how you feel with everyone getting bids, but there are people who are behind you in the process.

Take care

[MelodyCat]

Sometimes a chapter is really slow to warm up to the idea of AI. I'm really surprised everything has gone as quickly as it has for me - I really wasn't expecting it after reading other AI stories. I'd figured for a much longer process.

Keep your chin up. :) I think things are progressing along all right - sometimes it's just slow with some groups. We're all cheering for you!

[DGMarie]

.

[tinydancer]

Oh, hon, please don't be discouraged. It took me almost 2 years and at times it seemed like I was at a standstill. My Gamma Phi chapter was slow in moving because they had been burned by some women who were so anxious to AI and after they were initiated, they did not participate. They wanted to be absolutely sure of me.

Perhaps your group is the same way. If you loved your group from the start (like I did Gamma Phi), then that is probably where you need to be. Things just move reeeeeaaaallllly slooooowwwwly sometimes.

[JennRN]

Originally posted by DGMarie
is it possible that not everyone in the group knows you aren't a member of their GLO??



I actually wondered that myself. But back in the summer, the president of the alum chapter sent out an email about events which included a little bit about me-as in I was interested in learning more about ABC, would be attending some of the events, etc. But I have wondered this as well. But don't you think that it would have been discussed?

Thanks for listening and for the kind words. I was venting at the end of a hard night shift at the hospital and wasn't in the best of moods!

[Tom Earp]

Maybe you were not discussed or cussed!:)

But, if you and they were comfortable with each other then there is a fit!

Now the problems seems to be that maybe they are not aware that your are not a member but looking for AI! How do they feel about AI and do they understand what it really is?

Maybe the next attendence, you single out a few and talk to them explaining who you are, what and why you are doing what you are doing and, what you feel you might be able to do being a AI member.

[JennRN]

Ok guys, I have news!!!:D :D
Last night, I went to an informal get-together with some of the girls in the alum group-and it was so much fun! We went to this little wine bar, there were about 8 of us, and there were a couple of girls there that I've never met before, so I got to meet some new people-and see some I already have met. When the girls asked where I went to school, I just put it right out there-my situation, the whole AI process, why I'm there, etc etc-and I was so glad I did! If they didn't know I wasn't alum, they do now! The girls I had already met did know though. And ya'll, I had so much fun getting to know the girls and laughing and having a blast! So, I'm getting ready to leave, and the AC president told me that we're at the point where the alum chapter is ready to sponser me for AI!!!! :D :D And she's going to send in my paperwork to their nationals next week!! And she said don't worry about having a sponser, that all the girls liked me and thought I was a perfect fit!!! OMG, I am so so so excited!! It's like, everything I was worried about totally got taken care of last night. I am just on cloud 9 right now!! Oh, and the president also said that I'll be initiated in the fall ( assuming everything is ok)!! Happy happy!!
I feel so good knowing that I'm almost home!!

[polarpi]

Originally posted by JennRN
Ok guys, I have news!!!:D :D
Last night, I went to an informal get-together with some of the girls in the alum group-and it was so much fun! We went to this little wine bar, there were about 8 of us, and there were a couple of girls there that I've never met before, so I got to meet some new people-and see some I already have met. When the girls asked where I went to school, I just put it right out there-my situation, the whole AI process, why I'm there, etc etc-and I was so glad I did! If they didn't know I wasn't alum, they do now! The girls I had already met did know though. And ya'll, I had so much fun getting to know the girls and laughing and having a blast! So, I'm getting ready to leave, and the AC president told me that we're at the point where the alum chapter is ready to sponser me for AI!!!! :D :D And she's going to send in my paperwork to their nationals next week!! And she said don't worry about having a sponser, that all the girls liked me and thought I was a perfect fit!!! OMG, I am so so so excited!! It's like, everything I was worried about totally got taken care of last night. I am just on cloud 9 right now!! Oh, and the president also said that I'll be initiated in the fall ( assuming everything is ok)!! Happy happy!!
I feel so good knowing that I'm almost home!!

Sounds like things are working out for the best! Congratulations! :)

[Tom Earp]

Jennrn,

hope it was my advice that you took and if it was, you did right. Well, it looks like it was best and worked great!

Sounds so good for you!

Yea!;)

[MelodyCat]

Yay Jenn! I am SO happy for you! :D Congratulations!

[Sister Havana]

That's terrific news! :)

[Jill1228]

Woo hoo! I am waiting for the fat lady to sing a good song!

[tinydancer]

WOW! I know just how excited you are! We can't wait to hear where you are going.:)

[navane]

Wooo woooo yeah!!!!!!!!!! :) :D :cool:


We can't wait to hear the rest of the good news!


.....Kelly :)

[AOIIalum]

Wow, Jenn, it sounds like things are progressing nicely for you. Good luck in the next steps of your journey.

Christin

[WhiteDaisy128]

:D

Yay Jenn! Congrat's!! Can't wait to see how everything turns out...I'm so excited you might have found your home!

[Jen]

This is great news! So many happy AI stories lately=) Congrats....can't wait to find out the lucky group=)

[JennRN]

Well, I had another event with my group yesterday!! It was really fun-we went to a place where you pick out a piece of pottery thats already made, and paint it however you want, and then the place glazes and fires it for you. I am so not artistic, but it was really fun! There were about 8 of us there, and we had champagne ( which really helped our painting, haha :D ), cheese and crackers, fruit tart. The president had contacted whomever she needed to to get my paperwork started, but hadn't heard back from her yet, so I still haven't filled it out yet! But some of the other girls were asking me if I've gotten to start it yet. I had alot of fun, and we have another event this Thursday! Happy hour at a bar in downtown Raleigh, so I am looking forward to that as well. Except that I'm running a fever and not feeling so good right now!:( But things are going well, and I will post later this week after Thursday's event!

[PhiPsiRuss]

Good for you!

Originally posted by JennRN
Except that I'm running a fever and not feeling so good right now!:(
Try http://AirborneHealth.com/ because it really works.

Get well! :)

[bsp-mich24]

we have another event this Thursday! Happy hour at a bar in downtown Raleigh
Hope you were able to go and had a good time tonight!:)

[JennRN]

Well, I wound up not being able to go to happy hour last night...I was at the hospital all day long with seminars and stopped by the unit to clock in ( big mistake!!:D ) and they were super busy and short staffed, and begged me to work for a couple of hours...and because I'm a sucker, I did it. So by the time I left, I just wanted to go home, since I had to be back at work today. So, I didn't get to go. :( But I'm going to try and get together with some of the girls in the meantime, between now and next months event.

[The B Girl]

I was wondering if there were any developments lately for you regarding AI? It sounds like you are on a great track to find a home!

[mshoole]

Hey Jenn~
Sorry to kidnapp this thread, but this is gonna be real quick...what bar were you guys gonna attend, I lived in Raleigh for about 3 months. Okay back to regular news...good luck, and sorry you couldnt make it last night.

MS

[JennRN]

Hey all! Just a quick update..not much really to report...I went last week to a happy hour with the alum group, and I have one next week as well. The president got all the forms she needed from their nationals, so now all we have to do is fill them all out , send them in, and cross our fingers!! And hopefully, I can initiate in November!!

I just want to say though, that I have had so much fun on this journey so far, and I am so lucky to have met a group of girls who have been so sweet, so welcoming, and open to this relatively new idea of AI!! :D

[polarpi]

Best of luck...we're all rooting for you! :)

[JennRN]

Hey all-
Hope everyone's summer is going well; I know it's been a while since I posted, but not much has really been going on this summer! My AI group hasn't held any events this summer mainly because everyone's on vacation, etc etc. But today I got an email about this Saturday: at the collegiate group's house near me they are having a BBQ, and from what I understand, sort of a work on the house day. I'd love to go, but what do you guys think-do you think I could do this since I'm not a member? I was going to call the alum chapter pres, and see what she thinks, because I'd love to do it!

[hannahgirl]

I think that they will be impressed with your enthusaism and your willingness to help! I definately think that you should contact the Alumnae President and see what you can do!~

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

I would agree. I don't see why a person would need to be a member to help with house work. Many times they try to recruit members' parents as well.

[JennRN]

Well, I spoke with the alum president today, and she said of course I was welcome (hence the invitation email :p ), so I rsvp'd that I will definately be there! I can't wait to see the collegiate house, and all the girls again!

[reverie]

Originally posted by JennRN
Well, I spoke with the alum president today, and she said of course I was welcome (hence the invitation email :p ), so I rsvp'd that I will definately be there! I can't wait to see the collegiate house, and all the girls again!

That's awesome! Have fun and let us know how it goes!

[WhiteDaisy128]

Oh Jenn! This is great! I'm sure you'll have a blast at the BBQ (and even at the house work day, if that's what it is...). Let us know how it goes! ;)

[pinkyphimu]

congrats!! have a great time on sat and keep us posted!

[hannahgirl]

YAY! Good luck!! You'll have an absolute blast I'm sure!

[JennRN]

Hey guys! Well, Saturday was a blast! We went over the the chapter house, and planted a bunch of flowers in the front and back yard, did some maintenance in the yards; we also did some other stuff at the house , but I can't say what because it would give the group away! :p I met some of the collegians, and some of the girls who just became alumni from that chapter, and they are so nice!! I really got along great with one of them....(hee hee :D ). After that we ate a ton of free food ( the best kind!) and just sat around and talked. I had alot of fun, and it was cool to see the chapter house-it's really pretty! I bet the girls have a blast living there. Anyhoo, had a great time with everyone, and I can't wait for the next event!

[Jill1228]

Cool! Things are looking promising!

[The B Girl]

Glad to hear you had a good time and enjoyed yourself!!

[hannahgirl]

Any news Jenn???

[JennRN]

No news to tell really....I'm sort of in a holding pattern here. My AC president has my application, and the letters of recommendation that I need, but can't find whom to send all the paperwork to. I talked to her about 2 weeks ago, and she said that no one will get back with her on where the paperwork needs to go. :( So as of right now, I'm just waiting. They had hoped to initiate me this fall but that's obviously not going to happen. I am disappointed, but at the same time, I feel like we all get to know each other more, and will make the day I can call these girls my sisters even more special. ( But I really want that day to be soon!!:p ). Anyways, I know that this process is not over-night, and that some of you ladies have waited years and years!! So, I'm trying to be patient and keep positive! But if anything happens, I will surely let you all know.

[blueangel]

Hang in there Jenn!

I'm in a similar situation. My paperwork had been sent in a long time ago, and all was thought to be set.

But when nothing happened, it was discovered that there were still more steps to be taken. In this particular sorority, AI is very rare.. so it was understandable that not everyone was familiar with the exact procedure.

Through the help of three amazing women here on GC (you know who you are, and I will thank you publically when I can reveal more!).. and one non-GC woman-- who has moved heaven and earth for me... they were able to get the ball rolling again.

I'm still waiting.. but it is well worth the wait. I've been able to meet some of the women in the Alumnae Chapter, and they've been terrific! They have invited me to all of their activities, even though "the big day" hasn't yet happened for me. I feel so at home with them, and so welcomed.

Whether "it happens, or not" I still plan to contribute any way I can to the amazing work these women do for their philanthropy.

So, please don't get discouraged. I'm only writing this to let you know that what you're going through is not uncommon. Keep the faith! It will be worth all the ups and downs getting there!

[JennRN]

Hey guys! Just thought I'd give you guys an update on my group: over the Xmas holidays, I went to a couple of parties with them, and have been doing monthly happy hours when I can. Thats really about it right now-no news on the status of my paperwork, although, I filled it out almost a year ago, and have so many more activities I am involved in now-do you think I could ask the president of our chapter if I could add them onto my paperwork? I'm alot more involved in the community than I was a year ago, and would really like to add them-but don't know if I could ask to have my paperwork back. Anyways, thats really about it. I wish I had more to tell!! :)

However, a big CONGRATULATIONS is needed for our newest AI-blueangel, lake, TCV!!! You go girls!! :D :D

[lake]

Thanks so much, and you hang in there! Your day will come soon too. Always be prepared. I learned first-hand it can happen at any time!

[JennRN]

Hi guys! I know I've pretty much dropped off the face of the greekchat earth, but I just wanted to give an update of where my journey is at right now. I'm still waiting for my formal acceptance into the group that I've been pursuing for the past couple of years. The AC that I'm with is really new, and young-when I say young, I mean only having been around for about 3 years. Anyways, I spent a great summer with the girls, and saw them alot. We've just planned our fall events, and we came up with alot of great ideas-I am proud to say that I am getting to coordinate some volunteer work for the group-I can't really go into specifics, or it will give it away! The AC president told me that she's going to be talking with some regional people this week to see what else we can do for a possible AI. Anyways, that's where I'm at right now.

I don't mind that the process is slow-going and long. I have really gotten to know the girls in the group well, and we have alot of fun together. They are all smart, funny, beautiful women that I hope I can one day call my sisters! I really hope it happens, because I really want to get involved with the collegiate chapter near us, and do what I can do strengthen our AC group! The great thing is, the girls are so supportive of me and what I'm trying to accomplish-and that means more to me than I could ever say.

Anyhoo, so that's my update for now! :)

[ms_gwyn]

my fingers are crossed for you Jenn!

[bsp-mich24]

Thanks for the update & sending good vibes your way!:)

[tinydancer]

Oh, it's good to know you are still out there and still hoping. I think the work you are doing with the ladies will be helpful.:)

[Tom Earp]

JennRN

it sounds like things are progressing nicely for you!

You are headed in the right direction and sounds like your acceptance is greatly coming for you.

You Go Girl!:cool:

[trojangal]

Great news that you are getting involved! Will keep sending you good vibes!

[JennRN]

Quick update-my application, and various letters of sponsorship/reccomendation were sent into the group's headquarters last week-so not I just get to wait...with fingers crossed!!

I wanted some ideas from the ladies here though-I would like to get a gift for the AC pres ( for her letter on my behalf), and the other 2 ladies who wrote me rec letters-I don't want to just send thank-you notes, because I feel so touched they would do this for me. Any good ideas on some small gifts to get?

[AZ-AlphaXi]

Originally posted by JennRN
Quick update-my application, and various letters of sponsorship/reccomendation were sent into the group's headquarters last week-so not I just get to wait...with fingers crossed!!

I wanted some ideas from the ladies here though-I would like to get a gift for the AC pres ( for her letter on my behalf), and the other 2 ladies who wrote me rec letters-I don't want to just send thank-you notes, because I feel so touched they would do this for me. Any good ideas on some small gifts to get?

send them a dozen of the groups flowers

[JennRN]

Well, I'm still doing events with my group. At our last happy hour, I gave thank-you notes and gift cards for a day spa, to my sponser, the ac president, and another girl who wrote me a rec letter. The paperwork is at their nationals...and they told me that a few women who need to see my paperwork, are out of town right now...but that everyone else who needs to see it has, and has approved it...so I'm still waiting anxiously with butterflies. I feel like it's moving so quick now, and that soon it will be done...hopefully with news I want to hear, ha ha! :D

Initiation is soon for the collegians near me, and I know my group is making plans for me to initiate with them, if we get the go ahead. I am truly a bundle of emotions right now. I think about this everyday-you guys, I want this so bad. The waiting is killing me, I swear....:D

[trojangal]

:)

What good news so far...it sounds like things are really working out. I am hoping and praying for you that you will get the news you want soon!


:)

[Jill1228]

What she said! I got a hankerin' for another guessing game! :)

Originally posted by trojangal
:)

What good news so far...it sounds like things are really working out. I am hoping and praying for you that you will get the news you want soon!


:)

[ASUADPi]

I just finished your entire thread and Jenn I completely admire your determination. I love everything about it and this group is so incredibly lucky to have you.

Now if I just knew the group. Just kidding! :D I'm patient enough to wait.


I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.

[WhiteDaisy128]

It's amazing how slow everything was going then WHAM - everything goes so fast!! I have a feeling the next few weeks will be exciting for you! Make sure to let us know!! We're dying here!:D :D

Oh, and your mailbox is full!

[honeychile]

Okay, which groups have Alumnae Chapters or Alumnae Clubs, and not Alumnae Associations? :D

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

Originally posted by honeychile
Okay, which groups have Alumnae Chapters or Alumnae Clubs, and not Alumnae Associations? :D

We have chapters but I'm about 99.9% sure it's not us.

My guess (after a bit of research when I was unemployed) is DG.

[honeychile]

ADPi has Alumnae Associations.

[tinydancer]

I'm agreeing with my sis and saying Delta Gamma.
(but for some reason I keep thinking Phi Mu)

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

Originally posted by honeychile
ADPi has Alumnae Associations.

She's used AC (or alumnae chapter) in all of her updates........

But then alum "chapters" are often just a generic default.

[JennRN]

You guys crack me up! The reason I always said Alumnae Chapter, is because it was just a generic term to describe the group.

However, if I get the news I'm hoping for, I will start droping hints and clues...although I'm not very crafty, and can't hold a secret in, so then again, I might not!!:D

Oh, and I cleaned out my mailbox-sorry!