The Most Hurting Words....

[Curiousgirl]

Breaking up?
Pork Chop?
"you smell badly, can you take a shower first?"
"...Yes, your bum DOES look big in that"
"so i am wrong again, right?"
"u act like my mum"
"Wow baby, you have so many spots on your face, you need to do something about it".
.....
What's the most hurting words from your gf/bf?

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

[hocnsoc81]

Curiousgirl, are you currently in a relationship?

[Moochagoo]

"Dont worry darling, I've had two gf's at the same time before! Its a hassle which I dont need!"

"Darling, I'm surprised at the number of hot chicks working at my office"

"DOH! I really dont want to know!!!"



:p

[Hootie]

Originally posted by Curiousgirl
Breaking up?
Pork Chop?
"you smell badly, can you take a shower first?"
"...Yes, your bum DOES look big in that"
"so i am wrong again, right?"
"u act like my mum"
"Wow baby, you have so many spots on your face, you need to do something about it".
.....
What's the most hurting words from your gf/bf?

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

Um all I have to say is that if some scum aka GUY said those things to me he'd be out the door. Why bother!?:mad: :rolleyes:

[josh8o]

" " - Sara

Notice how nothing is said??? Try having a relationship where your girlfriend never had anything to say, that is truly the worst.

[AlphaChiS2K]

Said while cuddling in bed with my then-boyfriend of a week, after the girl he had been hoking up with knocks on the door and he goes out to talk to her:

Me: "Who was that?"

Andrew: "Oh, her.. well, she was last week."

Me: "So what does that make me?"

Andrew: "Oh, you're this week!"


Riiight. Peace...

[ZZ-kai-]

Just want to point something out, you said "Said while cuddling in bed with my then-boyfriend of a week......" and then get pissed when he tells you you are? Whats up with that?


Originally posted by AlphaChiS2K
Said while cuddling in bed with my then-boyfriend of a week, after the girl he had been hoking up with knocks on the door and he goes out to talk to her:

Me: "Who was that?"

Andrew: "Oh, her.. well, she was last week."

Me: "So what does that make me?"

Andrew: "Oh, you're this week!"


Riiight. Peace...

[AlphaChiS2K]

I wasn't clear I guess... he had made a point of committing to me as my boyfriend, not just as some random girl.

After saying it, he realized how bad it sounded and tried to backtrack, in the end we had a laugh out of it and ended up staying together for over a semester... but I always gave him grief for that one comment :)

[AlphaGamDiva]

this is really recent, hence the extremely bitter tone...

my b/f of over 2 yrs (off and on, but more on than off) went into the air force...we broke it off b/4 he left...but then he started missing me, so we got back together not long after he left...asked me to come see him in tx (which i did...spent 30 HOURS in my car one weekend)...find out 2 months later (aka: 4 days ago) that:

"well...when i found out i wasn't going to be stationed close to home, i realized that i had to get an Air Force g/f"--meaning he was dating this girl at the time i came to see him, just didn't tell either of us about the other except for "confessing" minor mess ups...

SUPER!

-sigh-
monica

[alphaxidelta12]

"do you realize that you partying with your friends makes you look like a huge tramp? i wish you would stop, you're making me look bad."

a: how does me having fun make me look like a tramp (note: i was just partying and drinking w/ friends, not hooking up with guys)

b: how in the hell does it make him look bad??? we broke up.

he was just a jacka$$

[amycat412]

"Your parents are such great people, how'd you turn out to be such a bitch?"

[LeslieAGD]

I think sometimes the most hurtful words are the ones that go unsaid...like when a guy doesn't want to date you anymore and just stops calling you. HINT, HINT Guys...this is NOT a breakup!!!

[Moochagoo]

More :

"sorry I dont love u any more, so Im going to change my ph number"

"heres a $10000 diamond necklace as a I-dont-love-u-anymore gift"

" I-hate-you-so-much-Im-gonna-marry-you"

"we've been dating two hours and you still havent called, dont you love me ?"


" your the nth guy Ive dated but I think youre the best yet"

:D :D

[volgirl2376]

when i finally got my now ex bf Michael to admit he had been cheating on me, he told me "She is just one in a million"...like wtf was I?

[PKTSU01]

Hmmm..interesting post.

Worst thing I've ever heard had to be when my first real g/f and my "first" cheated on me when I went away to college. She stayed back home in the city and I went upstate. When i went home to surprise one weekend freshman year, i found out she cheated on me. When i confronted her, she said" It's your fault for leaving me alone." What was that bitch? Come again? Anyways, last I heard of her she was knocked up, dropped out of school and already had an abortion.

Karma payback is a bitch isn't it?:D

[XO_Princess]

I had just started dating Hunny, and I was staying with him, and we were getting ready to go out, and I was putting on blush. He pops in the bathroom, and says:

Him: "Is that rouge?"

Me: (thinking, ok, no one calls it that but..) "Sure"

Him:" Ladies pinch....whores use rouge"

Me" What??!!"

He bursts out laughing-turns out that it was a line from a Simpson's episode that we had laughed at, and he decided to use it. I had forgotten it was from the Simpsons, and when I realized that he didn't mean it, and was trying to be funny, I wasn't mad. But I still remind him of it sometimes.:)

[Optimist Prime]

......can we still be friends?

Oh...and the all time worst.
her:"my dad forbade from taking to you or seeing you or anything and i'm grounded basically even though i am eightteen. This isn't fair. I will always love you, no matter what. We will still be married someday. Promice you will find me again."

OH my god..its been like five years. I guess I should start looking.

[bluz4]

"you were just some great a$$"

"you know sometimes you're butt seems so small"

"get out the car" -- it was my friend's car, not her bf's

"i have a daughter" -- after being together for 8 months

"i think you're cool, but your friend is much prettier."

"you're a b--" -- that was after i called him an a$$hole, though!!!

[Peaches-n-Cream]

"You would have a great body if it weren't for your stomach." :mad:
I'm thinking, "You would be a great guy if it weren't for your mouth."

[amycat412]

Originally posted by Cream
"You would have a great body if it weren't for your stomach." :mad:
I'm thinking, "You would be a great guy if it weren't for your mouth."

WTF?! Do guys realize that like 2% of women are actually capable of completely flat and cut abs? And if you have a large chest the likliehood of super model abs are even less? And if you eat or DRINK at all you will not have super model abs?? ESPECIALLY after the age of 25?! tHAT is something all men should be taught.

:) OK, stepping off my soapbox to go do my 1/2 hour of daily crunches and other assorted ab workouts so that no one ever says that to me -- cause I think 99% of us have heard that one, Cream, you're not alone. Hell, I personally don't think there's a damn thing wrong with my abs, they are flat, but they don;'t look like Britney's and never will, and still superficial, dumb guys say stupid Sh*t like that.

Sigh.

[KSig RC]

Originally posted by amycat412
WTF?! Do guys realize that like 2% of women are actually capable of completely flat and cut abs? And if you have a large chest the likliehood of super model abs are even less? And if you eat or DRINK at all you will not have super model abs?? ESPECIALLY after the age of 25?! tHAT is something all men should be taught.

Well, I figure since I work out just to offset the drinking/cheeseburgers/etc that I do, there's no reason to expect 2% bodyfat on girls . . . not all guys are unreasonable.

OK that last sentence isn't really true - but not all are unreasonable in this way ace, if for no reason than for the reciprocal understanding.

[amycat412]

but that's just the thing-- seems like women are much more accepting of the flaws in a man's body/we don't expect you all to have Brad Pitts abs and pec, then a lot of men are of the perceived flaws in a woman's body...

Of course, it can also be said, quite truthfully, that we women are way harder on our own bodies than you guys are on them...

Its just the whole abs thing that ticks me off. Genetically, most people can't acheive that. Trust me, I've been trying. ha ha ha

[Miami1839]

hey gorgeous :) You dont need to change a thing. Your perfect just the way you are. :D







Originally posted by amycat412
but that's just the thing-- seems like women are much more accepting of the flaws in a man's body/we don't expect you all to have Brad Pitts abs and pec, then a lot of men are of the perceived flaws in a woman's body...

Of course, it can also be said, quite truthfully, that we women are way harder on our own bodies than you guys are on them...

Its just the whole abs thing that ticks me off. Genetically, most people can't acheive that. Trust me, I've been trying. ha ha ha

[Peaches-n-Cream]

I knew that quote would get a reaction! He is a total DICK! I thought that I looked really cute that night, and I was feeling good and BAM! insult! I went from :cool: to :eek: and then :mad:! I went to my sorority reunion a few days later, and all of my sisters told me that I looked the same as I did when I was in college which was nine years ago so I have looked like this :D ever since! That was our last date so that guy is history! I don't need to be an insult magnet! :rolleyes:

[amycat412]

thanks Kevin. :)

[Peaches-n-Cream]

Amycat, you said it! Thanks! I'm totally over it. I love my belly and it loves me!:p

[shadokat]

"I just need some time" - when you know they could have the rest of their lives and shit wouldn't change.

"I love you but I'm not in love with you." - yeah, I understand the concept, but it still sucks!

By the way, how does someone hide they have a child for 8 months?!?!?

[lovelyivy84]

Originally posted by shadokat
"I just need some time" - when you know they could have the rest of their lives and shit wouldn't change.

"I love you but I'm not in love with you." - yeah, I understand the concept, but it still sucks!

By the way, how does someone hide they have a child for 8 months?!?!?

If said baby lives with baby mama, then it is quite possible, and quite often done.

"Why are you trying so hard?"

said when I was out with random folks and hating it but trying to be nice. Some random dude said that to me and it just ruined my whole night. Yeah, I still can't stand him.

I really don't get these comments often because it's known that they would be scraping their face off the floor when I was done with my analysis of their faults. Or maybe all the people I know are passive aggressive. I dunno.

[bluz4]

[QUOTE]Originally posted by lovelyivy84
[B]

If said baby lives with baby mama, then it is quite possible, and quite often done.

yes in fact that is very true. he was not living with the baby's mom so i had no clue that he had a baby.

and i got more:

"i love you. but i've loved her longer."

"are you ever going to change your look?" -- you mean the way i looked when we got together isnt doing it for you anymore??? oh well.

"you should hit the gym."

[Miami1839]

your welcome. :)

Originally posted by amycat412
thanks Kevin. :)

[ErikaXO]

"It's not the pants making your butt look big!"
"I'm too tired tonight, hon."
"Sorry, your card has been declined!" (damn!!!!)

[Miami1839]

You might have a point there but I know many women who are just as picky or even pickier. Both whats on the outside and even more whats on the inside. Why cant we take everything back 20 years. :(







Originally posted by amycat412
but that's just the thing-- seems like women are much more accepting of the flaws in a man's body/we don't expect you all to have Brad Pitts abs and pec, then a lot of men are of the perceived flaws in a woman's body...

Of course, it can also be said, quite truthfully, that we women are way harder on our own bodies than you guys are on them...

Its just the whole abs thing that ticks me off. Genetically, most people can't acheive that. Trust me, I've been trying. ha ha ha

[James]

20 years would be perfect, we would be in one of the most sexually promiscious eras of this Country. Sounds great, lets start a movement!

Ladies I feel for you, I have luckily never had any women say anything really crushing to me. This despite the myriads of women that have direly forecast that some future girl will tear my heart out. Un-fucking-likely.

However, I do reflect that I have said some unfortunate things to women in the past. Some were quite bad and would lose me the good feeling that some of you have for me if I shared. In my defense, they were not meant maliciously, but originated out of a callous disregard for anyones feelings/desires except my own.

But I am quite contrite, and have endeavored to be gallant and above saying crushing words designed To-prey-on-weak-self-esteem . Even in the face of outrageous provocation. Sometimes people make too easy of a target.

[Miami1839]

I hear ya James. Lets start a movement. :cool:

I can think of all kinds of hurtful things I've been told. Some of the typical lines that girls who have been my cuddle buddies.

"I'm not ready for a relationship right now in my life and I have too many other things to accomplish"
"I'm not good at relationships"
"You live too far"
"Your too old"
"You have issues"
"Lets just be friends(which means buh-bye)"

Then of course the little pat on the back. There'll be someone.
Thats exactly right. There will be someone and you wont be that girl to win the prize babe.

[ilovemyglo]

I think I love your family more than you.

I am okay with settling for you.

My favorite of all time

So can we still sleep together cause I always thought you were great.

[xo_sue]

After receiving my valentines day gift, which was a jar of heart candy.....

Sue "thank you"

Guy "Yeah, my mom picked it up at Stop n Shop for me"



Not hurtful but just showed me he did not care enough about me to buy the gift himself - grocery store or no grocery store!

[SigkapAlumWSU]

Said to me after I drove 300 miles to spend my spring break with him:

him: we have to talk.
me: ok, what's up?
him: well, M(a friend of both of ours) told me he already talked to you, and I guess you already know. (M had told me a break up was coming and I knew that the whole 300 mi drive...) So I guess that's it then.

WTF? So, even though your friend told me, you can't put it into your own words??? Gee, thanks for making an effort.

[SATX*APhi]

"You are everything I want in a life partner. There's only problem -- I have fallen out of love with you." :(

And he has to bring up our past every time we talk. Sniff, sniff.

[aephi alum]

Some of these are pretty harsh! :(

My worst breakup story: (after dating for 4 months)

Him: Will you convert to my religion for me?
Me: No. I'd like to learn more about your faith, but the religion I will follow is a personal decision that I will make for myself.
Him: Well, I can't marry someone who isn't (his religion). So it's over. But we can still be friends, right?

The worst part was that this conversation took place over IM. B@st@rd didn't even have the balls to break up with me in person. :rolleyes: Still don't know what I saw in him.......

[Hermione]

Him: "Have you gained weight?"
Me: "Ummm..."
Him: "Wanna have sex?"

I don't think so!

Or how about: "Have you ever thought about two guys at once?"

And then I turn around and see that his (biological) brother is watching! Ew!

Or the winner: "Well, when we were together, it was just like being back with you at the beginning when everything was so great. But now that I think about it, I can't. But I'm always going to love you and I'm always going to be a part of your life as your friend because I care about you so much..."

Dear god, if this is logic, I'd like to see irrational thought.

[Hootie]

Quoting my Ex-Fiancee (and this was done via TEXT MESSAGING)

"I'm not happy anymore. I need space to see if this is what I want" (two days prior he wanted to elope)

or...after giving him an ultimatum about him conversing sexually with another girl...
"Fine then move home"

:rolleyes: DUMB BOY!

[MoxieGrrl]

One of my exes: "This song reminds me of you...(lyrics) 'So what if the sex was great, just a temporary escape, another thing I grew to hate, but now it's over."

-Well, too bad I thought that it sucked. Nice to see that he had a good opinion of it, though. :rolleyes:

My fiance, God love him: "Mm....I love your big hips."

-Umm....was that supposed to be a compliment?

[aprilxo]

"You're seriously the closest thing to the perfect woman that I've ever met... but I can't figure out if I like you as more than a friend or not."

Yeah THAT made sense :rolleyes:

[AXOLiz]

Originally posted by MoxieGrrl
My fiance, God love him: "Mm....I love your big hips."

-Umm....was that supposed to be a compliment?

That reminds me of something my former roomie's boyfriend said! They were talking one day and he said something about a girl having "good child-bearing hips." She, of course, asked him what on earth he meant, and he said, "Isn't that a compliment? I thought girls like having good child-bearing hips?"

He meant it in a nice way and was visibly upset, which of course made her crack up at him. Thank god she set him straight, otherwise at some point, he probably would've gotten a swift kick in the junk while trying to be nice to some poor girl! :p

[BearyCuteAPhi]

"I need time to think, I don't know what I want." :(
After a long period of being very defensive and secretive..." Oh, so you don't trust me?" Duh!!!!:rolleyes:

[Hermione]

On his radio show: "This song is dedicated to a very special female friend of mine who's listening tonight. It's called 'She's My Bimbo and That's Okay!'"

[Dionysus]

I don't ever remember a guy hurting my feelings in this context, if he did I would point out his downfalls, humiliating him to the point of crying.

[aprilxo]

I think I've hurt some feelings too... letsee if I can think of some harsh things I've said...

"Dammit stop crying! I can't stand it--you're too much like a girl."

"It's just that... only you and 5th grade boys wear tapered-leg jeans..."

"I know I said the other day that I wanted to get back together, but I realized still don't like you."

"I think we need some time apart to 'think'..." ...and then I refused to talk to him ever again. Probably could have been a bit nicer about it.

Girls are assholes too sometimes... sorry guys.

[Dionysus]

Originally posted by aprilxo

Girls are assholes too sometimes... sorry guys.

Shhhhhhhhhh.........

[MoxieGrrl]

Originally posted by Dionysus
I don't ever remember a guy hurting my feelings in this context, if he did I would point out his downfalls, humiliating him to the point of crying.


ROFLMAO! You are my guru :D

[sororitygirl2]

Okay... I didn't read the whole thread so I hope I am not repeating what someone else said.

Anyway, to me, the most hurtful words are no words at all. I would rather have a guy be a dick and tell me how he really feels than to just write me off and ignore my calls.

[Rio_Kohitsuji]

Ahh..such lovely times..

"Well, you can't date cause you're mine, but I can still date other people." WTF??????

"If you -really- loved me, you should have believed me instead of <girl's name> when she told you that we were fooling around.."

"You really do act your age." <-- huh? Implying that I was acting 16..when I was 16.. :rolleyes:

"I loved you before I met her, but now, I don't love you."

"If you don't go to <insert school's name here> I'm going to start visiting <random girl here> a -lot- more often.."


So far TKE209 hasn't said anything bad..and it's been over a year..let's hope it says that way, lol! :)

[aprilxo]

Originally posted by sororitygirl2
Anyway, to me, the most hurtful words are no words at all. I would rather have a guy be a dick and tell me how he really feels than to just write me off and ignore my calls.
Actually, that is so true. If he's a dick, I feel like I actually have something to deal with/work off of, or be mad about--but to just be treated as if I don't exist? No respect there.

In highschool one of the most humiliating breakups I had was when the guy began ignoring me, and he wrote me a note to tell me he wanted to break up with me--and gave it to another person to deliver, who was a good guy friend of mine. So of course the guy hands it to me with this sympathetic look on his face and says "sorry." Yuh, I knew he had read it before I even did--and so had like 20 other people. THAT hurt.

Lengthy tangent:
However, it was pretty sweet revenge when 5 other good guy pals of mine got pissed off at this dude and nearly beat the life out of him at track practice. I was injured that day so I went home instead of running, but I was told later that it took 9 guys to hold back my buddy Moose, who is normally very calm and collected and nonconfrontational. He just *snapped.* But that was in part due to some other issues in relation to that particular ex-male of mine.

[SATX*APhi]

Originally posted by aprilxo
"You're seriously the closest thing to the perfect woman that I've ever met... but I can't figure out if I like you as more than a friend or not."

Yeah THAT made sense :rolleyes:
Sort of sounds like what my ex told me. Boys are dumb!

[deltaphi94]

I'm fighting an infection and feel horrible, so I head out to the dr. (this was last week), who decides we should probably try some stong doses. Sounds good to me because I HATE being sick, and I have a 4 year old in preschool 3 days a week.

At first, I was fine on the meds, but I had reactions to one of them. So, I'm in pain, topped by the reaction -- not allergy, but still far from pleasant. This started over the weekend, and I couldn't get in touch with the dr, given that it was the weekend.

Monday morning...

him: i want to go hunting.

me: i'd rather you not go until i get through to the dr and get this stuff out of my system. i don't mind you going after it's pretty much out of my system, but i feel awful and don't want to be left alone with the 4 yr old.

{I'm still taking him to and picking him up after school, but my tummy is in knots, and eating is not a good plan at this point.}

~Mom heads out to drop son at school, comes straight home to lie down

Monday afternoon, Mom heads out to get son from school and run an errand, still feeling horrible with evil meds in system, having been unable to reach dr so far

~Mom returns home to...

him: i called Dad. we're leaving tomorrow when i get up.... i was only waiting for a call from ___ before i called him. we'll be back sometime friday.

:mad:

[UF_PikePC98]

There are many things I've said in the past that are wrong, seriously wrong.


I'll spare you ladies the bad side of me and give you something pretty light......


Febuary 14th 2002.....I was already worn out mood from an exam

At her apartment:

I walk in: Happy Valentines Day, Marissa.....this is for you....

Her: Why thank you baby! I miss you when you're away.

Me: Huh? Well, I had to go to class...and so did you......

Her: I know, but I don't like it when I'm not around you....I feel like somethings missing. **kiss**kiss**

Me: Damn! What the hell are you going during spring break?

Her: Be thinking of you.....What will you be doing?

Me: Trying to get on MTV and hoping none of your friends see me with another girl.

Her: What?? WTF?

Me: I'm just joking baby......

Her: NO YOUR NOT!

Me: B!tch, don't phucking yell at me.

Her: Stop calling me a B!tch.

Me: ( I'm walking to the kitchen ) I'm not in the mood to hear your $hit.

Her: Are you cheating on me?

Me: Marissa, you're being a phucking bitch right now.

Her: Did you hook up with Jenn? And look at me when I'm talking to you Craig.

Me: No, I didn't hook up with Jenn.......she just slept at my apartment last week.

Her: YOU PHUCKING PIECE OF $HIT! YOU SLEPT WITH MY PLEDGE SISTER?

Me: LOOK YOU DUMB B!TCH, if you'd shut your PHUCKING MOUTH for one moment......You'dddddd

Her: ***SMACK***

ME: ***shocked and dazed*** You know, I never liked you in the first place. I put up with your $hit because all my boys think you look exactly like Jenna Jameson. I decided to put up with your $hit in exchange for a video tape of us phucking so that I can show it to all them. I don't know if you are in love or just that much of a slut, but you gave me what I wanted......

Her: **SMACK**SMACK**GET THE PHUCK OUT!

ME: Can I have my chocolates back?

HER: **BAMB** ( She hit me in the head with them )


The next morning I left for school.....all 4 of my tires were slashed

I had to take the bus...

[ADPi~Ally]

You have got to be freakin kidding me. You call this pretty light? You are seriously delusional. This is bad Craig. That's pretty low, to sleep with her just to get a video of you "phucking" The 4 slashed tires, would be the least of what u should of gotten. And If u think i have some high and mighty bitch perspective, IT'S NOT THAT, it's called morals and treating people with respect....

Originally posted by UF_PikePC98
There are many things I've said in the past that are wrong, seriously wrong.


I'll spare you ladies the bad side of me and give you something pretty light......


Febuary 14th 2002.....I was already worn out mood from an exam

At her apartment:

I walk in: Happy Valentines Day, Marissa.....this is for you....

Her: Why thank you baby! I miss you when you're away.

Me: Huh? Well, I had to go to class...and so did you......

Her: I know, but I don't like it when I'm not around you....I feel like somethings missing. **kiss**kiss**

Me: Damn! What the hell are you going during spring break?

Her: Be thinking of you.....What will you be doing?

Me: Trying to get on MTV and hoping none of your friends see me with another girl.

Her: What?? WTF?

Me: I'm just joking baby......

Her: NO YOUR NOT!

Me: B!tch, don't phucking yell at me.

Her: Stop calling me a B!tch.

Me: ( I'm walking to the kitchen ) I'm not in the mood to hear your $hit.

Her: Are you cheating on me?

Me: Marissa, you're being a phucking bitch right now.

Her: Did you hook up with Jenn? And look at me when I'm talking to you Craig.

Me: No, I didn't hook up with Jenn.......she just slept at my apartment last week.

Her: YOU PHUCKING PIECE OF $HIT! YOU SLEPT WITH MY PLEDGE SISTER?

Me: LOOK YOU DUMB B!TCH, if you'd shut your PHUCKING MOUTH for one moment......You'dddddd

Her: ***SMACK***

ME: ***shocked and dazed*** You know, I never liked you in the first place. I put up with your $hit because all my boys think you look exactly like Jenna Jameson. I decided to put up with your $hit in exchange for a video tape of us phucking so that I can show it to all them. I don't know if you are in love or just that much of a slut, but you gave me what I wanted......

Her: **SMACK**SMACK**GET THE PHUCK OUT!

ME: Can I have my chocolates back?

HER: **BAMB** ( She hit me in the head with them )


The next morning I left for school.....all 4 of my tires were slashed

I had to take the bus...

[UF_PikePC98]

Ally,


What I said was indeed to hurt her, however it wasn't true.

I didn't show our video to any of my friends. In fact, she had it the whole time. She was just too stupid to realize that she actually still had the tape. I told her to keep it in case I got wasted one night while my friends were over and we decided to play it. In order to keep that from happening I made her keep the tape. I knew how much of a bimbo she was and gambled with that comment. It worked and she forgot that she actually had it.

The title of this thread was hurting words, I wasn't "talking" to her inorder to get her on tape with myself, that was something she came up with on her own. That was another bimbo thing on her part, she forgot that it was originally her idea.......

In my opion she was being a B!tch. She accused me of hooking up with her sorority sister and didn't let me finish me sentences while talking to her and explaining why her pledge sisters slept at my house.....She did what most chicks do and thought the worst.......I was trying to explain to her that she slept with my roomate.....She didn't let me finish and smacked me instead.....

I don't take $hit like that from chicks, so I decided to say something to totally piss her off.....

[Peaches-n-Cream]

:eek: UFPike, you are too much. Smack Smack
I should have smacked my ex when he asked out my sister. My biological sister! smack smack

[lifesaver]

OK, NONE of us are in the shape we were when we started college, and I'll be the firs tto admit, I've put on about 15 lbs. I also havent been to the gym in a while, because I went into business with three other kids and if we dont produce, we dont eat (why I am usually at at the office till 9pm or so) and so I am not in the shape I was in when I started college. (Not that I look bad, but whatever- but I am a BIT self-concious)

ANYWAY. So I am rounding 3rd base, thinking of stealing home and say, "Wow you have a great body." and the bitch says, "I thought you used to be a lifeguard?"

WTF?

Daymn yo... Thats some serious shit. Ouch.

[damasa]

Originally posted by lifesaver
OK, NONE of us are in the shape we were when we started college, and I'll be the firs tto admit, I've put on about 15 lbs. I also havent been to the gym in a while, because I went into business with three other kids and if we dont produce, we dont eat (why I am usually at at the office till 9pm or so) and so I am not in the shape I was in when I started college. (Not that I look bad, but whatever- but I am a BIT self-concious)

ANYWAY. So I am rounding 3rd base, thinking of stealing home and say, "Wow you have a great body." and the bitch says, "I thought you used to be a lifeguard?"

WTF?

Daymn yo... Thats some serious shit. Ouch.

I hear what you are saying there man. I just started working out seriously again and I can't throw it up like I used to. Hopefully I'll be back to my old self again in no time....

[AXOLiz]

Originally posted by sororitygirl2
Okay... I didn't read the whole thread so I hope I am not repeating what someone else said.

Anyway, to me, the most hurtful words are no words at all. I would rather have a guy be a dick and tell me how he really feels than to just write me off and ignore my calls.

Why the hell do some guys think that ignoring you is going to make everything ok? This $%#&*@ - a guy I used to date, of course - makes me SO mad. That's how he'd always deal with me whenever something came up that was slightly rocky, he'd just ignore me until I got over it (even if he was the source of the issue in the first place). Big fan of hanging up phones or blocking me on IM if we ever talked about something he didn't want to talk about (long distance relationships are loads of fun...). So I called it quits eventually (this was like 2 years ago), but we were really good friends for a long time before we decided to get involved so I figured after a while, I'd try to reopen the lines of communication.

This dude has a fiancee now. You'd think we could be friends again, especially since he started talking to me. It wasn't like I hunted him down, he found me. Then he decides to try to get me to become a "friend with benefits." Please. I'm not about to be the other woman. Now he refuses to talk to me. You'd think he could at least tell me why, even if it was, "You know, I can't handle being friends." That'd be FINE. At least I'd know. But when I try to talk to you to find out how you're doing after you've been talking to me for a month, don't just pretend like I suddenly don't exist! :mad: